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Hi, this is a poll for a tournament previously posted in sexuality section
In this phase we must choose who is the prettiest among the girls suggested by you for the german selection. The winner will challenge other girls already qualified in the 1st phase:
Alexa Breit, Karlotta Nila, and Sophie XDT
We will publish the next ones every Friday at 19:00UTC+1 = 18:00UTC0.
RESPECT everyone's thoughts, this is the most important rule. THANKS

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Carlotta Bonke:

Dilara S:

Giulia Gwinn:

Hi, this is a poll for a tournament previously posted in sexuality section
In this phase we must choose who is the prettiest among the girls suggested by you for the chinese selection.
We will publish the next ones every Friday at 19:00UTC+1 = 18:00UTC0.
RESPECT everyone's thoughts, this is the most important rule. THANKS

To view the pics in better quality just click on them
If you don't trust the photos you can watch their videos

(The content of the chinese girls are only available on Douyin)

FairyAna:

Grapefruit701 1170981697:

Cao Ye Lan 4313159:

Pan Shuang:

Just for the record it is not racist if you just find certain ethnicities physically attractive.

Physical attraction isn’t a choice. Race is also a bullshit victim excuse some people use who can’t handle rejection (if it was due to looks). If a minority girl isn’t physically attracted to me because I’m white then she’s just not attracted to me. I might be disappointed but it’s just how it is. Not her fault because physical attraction isn’t a choice.

However if you do find someone of a different race attractive but won’t even give them a chance because of unfair prejudices that’s a different story. It’s one thing if you took the time to get to know them and you just found them incompatible. But quite another if you intentionally stayed away despite finding them attractive otherwise.

Anyway I have have dated outside my race plenty of times. But often found these women brought up racial differences more than I did. I had an Asian ex girlfriend who would say “ah white people” occasionally when she was frustrated with me over something. It didn’t bother me the much because she was young, beautiful and in love with me for a long stretch. But I rarely brought up race when dating and if I did it was usually positive (she was a good cook).

But still I truly believe women consider race more when it comes to dating then they will admit (white girls especially won’t admit that).

Again I do NOT think it’s “racist” to admit you don’t find a certain ethnicity attractive (but respect them otherwise). But I think women are secretly more picky about this.

For most men, the requirements for a good woman are:

1. He needs to find you attractive (bare minimum is average (5/10), below average (4/10)

2. Show him respect

3. Show him affection

4. Don't be promiscuous or engage in sex work (malleable for a lot of guys)

5. Be loyal

6. Cook and clean (flexible in this day and age with a lot of guy dropping this as a requirement).

7. Be willing to have a kid for him

8. No substance abuse disorders (e. g. alcohol or illegal drugs)

9. No mental illness

For women, the requirements for a good man are:

1. Must meet a certain height threshold (usually 6'0 or taller; top 20% in height)

2. She needs to find you attractive (7+/10 or higher)

3. Must gain her friends and family approval

4. Must have good income/job/place/car (usually 6 figures)

5. Must show her affection

6. Must provide for her

7. Must protect/risk your life for you

8. Must be willing to self sacrifice yourself for her

9. Must take on leadership role/decision making

10. Must be loyal (flexible as a lot of women are willing to forgo this if other needs are met)

11. Must be experienced with women (women hate inexperienced men)

12. Must be highly socially intelligent/charming

13. Must have high status

14. Must have good social connections

15. Must display girl approval/value by displaying that other women want you.

Okay, so..
This is the context and then situation:
I'm going to school, I currently hang with a bunch of girls in class (hot, smart ones). Outside of class I know most people by name (~80p) and have talked on shallow levels. I am applying myself as a support-role to most and give/reccieve respect from many, I have high social status and reccieve lots of attention from girls and guys. The common way where girls can be picky don't really apply as I am the sought after and they are chasing.

Contrary to popular belief, I am not very experienced with girls at all, though I am well versed in bodylanguage and used to networking friends and analysing social group-dynamics. I am used to navigating crowds and leading with respect, care, well-meaning, long-term intention. When you give respect without judging you also reccive it, which adds up and twists in positive rumors.
I am not a "white knight", but I am also not a bystander, I speak up for my views and call out people without making a scene.

The situation:
So in my friendgroup, well there's no girls that ain't orbiters (friendzoned) right now but I really like this one girl in group, she likes me too, she's really a great balance between ratiinality and intuity, she's really smart and mature, we're both extroverts and naturally flirty so it went on well at first then I found out she has a boyfriend.

I appologized (outed myself as an admirer) and reverted to friendzone because I am trying to be principled (maybe not to a fault). Which she obviously said she appreciated and denied even noticing (obvi) and then we just went on being great, playful friends, knowing we're just being natural. But since then she's been brushing up beside me (forcing skin-contact) at the gym and while studying.