Do you think the requirements for a GOOD woman are way below the requirements for a GOOD man?

[Anonymous]

For most men, the requirements for a good woman are:

1. He needs to find you attractive (bare minimum is average (5/10), below average (4/10)

2. Show him respect

3. Show him affection

4. Don't be promiscuous or engage in sex work (malleable for a lot of guys)

5. Be loyal

6. Cook and clean (flexible in this day and age with a lot of guy dropping this as a requirement).

7. Be willing to have a kid for him

8. No substance abuse disorders (e. g. alcohol or illegal drugs)

9. No mental illness

For women, the requirements for a good man are:

1. Must meet a certain height threshold (usually 6'0 or taller; top 20% in height)

2. She needs to find you attractive (7+/10 or higher)

3. Must gain her friends and family approval

4. Must have good income/job/place/car (usually 6 figures)

5. Must show her affection

6. Must provide for her

7. Must protect/risk your life for you

8. Must be willing to self sacrifice yourself for her

9. Must take on leadership role/decision making

10. Must be loyal (flexible as a lot of women are willing to forgo this if other needs are met)

11. Must be experienced with women (women hate inexperienced men)

12. Must be highly socially intelligent/charming

13. Must have high status

14. Must have good social connections

15. Must display girl approval/value by displaying that other women want you.

Yes

No

[Catarine]

The same. Everywhere besides america you don't need to have top height or money. A guy 5'7 and up is tall to me (5'2 girl) and I believe this is around an average height for a guy to be. Besides america I've never heard any girl to say that the guy has to be 6'0 or taller 💀. Also most girlies there don't know that an average guy thats around 30 makes 60.000$ and never exceed that. 6 figures is a delusion

Status, breadwinning, politics, protecting and leadership role are what men usually prefere. For women is beauty related stuff and for a good reason as this is what is the most valuable to men, our beauty. And if a man is a breadwinner and taes care of her she can know she can have kids with him. This task is not fun by any means but women have to do that, its a part of being a woman

Family approval is always a plus (for me most of my family doesn't like my boyfriend, i don't care cuz I like him)

Attractiveness is always necessary, we are all visual creatures. The fact that you said guys go 5 and women 7 is wrong, usually the ladies go numbers down (hot girl, average guy). We prefere funny and inteligent guys. Guys don't care about high intelligence, they just want a girl who is not dumb.

To be loyal and respecting is a bare minimal in relationships, if both don't show that its doomed.

Substance abuse is not cute on either gender.

I hope this clearifies that both genders have their own things and roles and its equally important to be a high value human

[Siochfhradha]

@Catarine - it's not America it's only on forums like this overpopulated with social rejects that don't get anywhere with the opposite sex because both most men and women on GAG spout more toxicity than a 1950s nuclear submarine & well nobody likes constant toxicity.

[Catarine]

You know what, america is the worst in this but I agree with you with many people on forums like this probably don't find dates and that turns them bitter and toxic

[Siochfhradha]

@Catarine - it does, if you're constantly turned down, etc or have bad luck of course it's going to turn you bitter & toxic. But this is where people with character shine through --- they pick themselves up & work to improve themselves. GAG from what I've seen seem to be people more adept at blaming the world than looking in the mirror.

Just look at this post 80% of it isn't even reality

[Anonymous]

Yes. But only because women are picky from start point go. Women either know what to look for in a quality guy or they don't and if they don't they have to f*** up till they learn, if they ever learn. Men on the other hand have no f***ing clue from the start. We think all women are the same and we all have to learn what the bad ones are the hard way.

So in other words a woman's list starts off long. A guys isn't even a list to begin with and it grows as he learns who and what to avoid in the future.

[DiegoO]

Yeah, that's because you don't hear much about abusive women's. Therefore the requirements we look for a woman, most times don't include things that would keep we off from violent or erratic women's. In other words, we are more prone to suffer from domestic violence, be unable to indentifye it and to even file a report against our partner.

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes. Women make a hobby of compiling a laundry list of things a man has to have, and an even longer laundry list of things they're not allowed to have. Why do you think so many women post their "icks" on TikTok? Their entire existence revolves around criticizing men.

[VIVANT]

There is nothing attractive here in either list woman or man... this is just glorified maid service with “charming boss”.

[lightbulb27]

a lot of that is baloney. it's not much different, we should have high standards... for values and character.

[Bubbles45]

I think it just depends on personal preference, some traits or qualities are more important to others in certain situations.

[genericname85]

absolutely. don't be fat and don't fuck around and you'll be a good woman. for a man, there's a huge list of things.

[dolemite58]

yep when women are in their prime looks wise they’re much more picky about who they have sex. It’s always been that way though 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Tour 6 foot figure actually places them in the top 5% not 20%.. It's why a lot of women are simply delusional.

[Anonymous]

You don't get out much, do you?

[Asker]

I do. This is how I was able to come up with the info for this question.

[Dan_5001]

I must admit European women don't pick guys with these preferences entirely. But western women e. g American, English & Canadian women do follow this rule of thumb from experience & it's annoying. So I partially agree but not 100 percent.

[LiamJHayden]

Standards differ from person to person.

[whistlingwh0res]

Go to orgy already ugh that's realistic

[whistlingwh0res]

They go to orgy and they complain that other people have too high standard. Ugh..