Is blackpill the ultimate truth?

[Anonymous]

I'm an Indian guy who is like 5'7. I guess it's gonna be rough with most of the women. I have accepted my faith and I feel , I should just work on myself and forget having any love in my life. Those things I cannot change and I believe even if I have the option to change I would not because it would mean that I accepted that being tall is better. So I should be just proud of myself and just accept that most women will not be attracted to me. I do workouts as well + I have a good jawline. But I don't think that matters tbh. I basically think I have taken the blackpill and I just can't do it. Most of the guys I see are taller than me even some girls. Height is like a trait which disables anyone's chance for a relationship. Also a lot of people say just go for short girls but the point is that out of everyone I just have the option to go for short ones. It's so hard because it's already so narrowed down. And also I have seen that a lot of short girls also like a guy way taller and they have very high height requirement. The worst part is, short girls are considered cute, tall girls are considered hot and tall guys are considered handsome and more masculine but short guys are literally at the worst position and no one wants them in the society. I feel I should not marry and pass my short genes so that my kids don't feel the same.

[MCheetah]

Yup.

"A lot of short girls also like a guy way taller and they have very high height requirement. The worst part is, short girls are considered cute, tall girls are considered hot, and tall guys are considered handsome and more masculine. But short guys are literally at the worst position and no one wants them in the society."

Yup. Absolutely right. And I'm in that group as well. Welcome to the Blackpill.

[IMuser]

If you are that demotivated, do the following things
1. Earn money
2. Travel to countries where it is easy to get sex (especially when you have money) and enjoy the sexual adventures
3. If love is getting decided based on superficial features like height, jawline etc. Then yes avoid that love. If you (and your partner) can love each other when they are not at their prime, then pursue that love

[AvaOneLasTime]

At the very same day you posted your question, there was a topic about:
Would you get leg lengthening surgery if you had the chance?
There you go. Even so, there are women who do not necessarily like only tall guys.

[Asker]

No way he went up to six inches 🤣.

[AvaOneLasTime]

So they say.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Oh and by the way, about the genetics part, that was ridiculous. The woman's genes, they what, don't matter? You are in this case only thinking about yourself, and not taking the women's genetics into account. And let me tell you, there is no way to know, how would your child, with ANY woman, turn out to be.

I know a pretty guy who has ugly parents. Who would guess?

[Asker]

I didn't talk about genes though?

[AvaOneLasTime]

" I feel I should not marry and pass my short genes so that my kids don't feel the same."

In this site, if you write something as a question or a MyTake, you cannot edit it. :)

[Asker]

Oh, I forgot that one. I thought I talked about my genes. But most of the times if the parents are short kids are short as well and it comes from the paternal side most of the times.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Define 'most'. Define short woman. Its way too complicated, but sure, let me tell you. My boyfriend is 179cm tall. His father is 180cm. But HIS father (my boyfriend's grandpa) is 178. But the grandfather, of my boyfriend's father was... 199cm tall.
So what happened to these genes? Where did they go? They went into my boyfriend's aunt - the sister of his father. She is not tall - 169cm, but her son - my boyfriend's cousin is 189cm. And HIS father - my boyfriend's uncle is 176 or 177cm, not sure. That cousin, has kinda short parents, but the gene of that ancestor carried onto him somehow.

There is no way someone can tell you, how will the genetics combine. Its just impossible, there is no "usually" here, because what is supposed to be usual, doesn't happens so usually.

[Asker]

Most of them similar height if you take the average. And of course female is gonna be short.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Yeah, we know? Still the mystery remains, how come the aunt carried out the gene, without benefitting from it - bein' tall herself.

So i understand about complaining and your issue, but don't take your genes only into account, when the child carries both parent's genes. Its kinda disrespectful.

[Asker]

A lot of women take that in account as well. Tell them the same thing. And you're with your boyfriend because one of the reason is he is probably tall. Isn't it?

[AvaOneLasTime]

Since when 179 is tall? That's as average as my boobs - yeah, they are medium sized.
He is not even taller than his father. I am drawn by his weird personality.

Believe it or not i saw a 13 or 14 years old girl, the other day, with boy the same age, but he was shorter than her. She would not stop mentioning how cute he is. She really likes him. I don't know why, i don't know them well, but it doesn't matter, they are happy as they are.

[Asker]

Average is 175

[Asker]

What if he was 170 like me, there would be no chance🤣.

[AvaOneLasTime]

That boy was 165 and his girlfriend was 170. : Forget the chance, he IS TAKEN.

Now, you're gonna say, shorter men can't make sprinting records, do they? But think, before you say what will you say

[Asker]

I'm not talking those 13-14 year old cases. They still have time to grow. I'm talking about your case.

[AvaOneLasTime]

I don't pick men or women by their height. There is so much more to people, than their height. In my case, i can never know what i will be drawn by/into! Sometimes its some girl's amazing skin. Sometimes the boobs, the ass. Boys' hair, smile. Arms/hands. Personality, masculinity. Being fun, brave.

I can never know.

[Asker]

But don't you think that subconsciously you only gave him a chance because he was tall?

[AvaOneLasTime]

No. Because he is not tall in the first place.

[Asker]

He is I told that above 175 CM is tall.

[AvaOneLasTime]

It is, for you. On average, in Bulgaria, an average height for a man is 175 to 180. he is 179. he is average.
Are you trying to convince me or yourself, that my boyfriend is taller than he is? :D I see him everyday. Everyday, i see people taller than him and people shorter than him.

[Asker]

And how tall are you?

[AvaOneLasTime]

174, why?

[Asker]

Oh, ok. I understand other wise girls who are like 150 cm say 6ft and up. I thought you were in that category. But sorry. Don't bother about it.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Did you know, the fastest 60 meters sprint in history, were ran over by... an Asian, who is 173cm tall.
I guess he forgot his excuses at home back that day.

[Asker]

Maybe he had more fast twitch muscles. And if you don't know that also depends on genes. And I'm not just saying you can just google it. It's a fact.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Nope, none of those.
He undergo training you can't imagine. Its not genes. Its not luck. It was the lack of excuses. Dude changed his leading/starting leg, at running. He deleted his habit in a way. Can you do that? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52jgttTNGuM :) Damn i feel like running, see ya later!

[Asker]

Lol, I don't know where this conversation went sorry for bothering you 🤣.

[Anonymous]

I could never date an Indian guy again to be honest

https://youtu.be/fZFBIfxf7gk

[Asker]

Your wish

[Opinion Owner]

Just don't want no short dick man...

[Asker]

Cringe

[Opinion Owner]

I just feel bad for indian women, they shouldn't have to put up with that

[Asker]

I feel bad for u, so cringe

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly nothing worse than sex with a man who was born sexually disabled

[whirled_up_girl]

You're too young to give up, wait another 10 to 20 years before you call it quits on dating.

[Asker]

I'm still virgin and 18

[whirled_up_girl]

That's totally fine to be a virgin at 18 I was a virgin till I was 21. I know it's different for guys but honestly, give it a fair shot before you give up, I'm sure there are nice girls out their your age and even older that are holding on to their V card till the right guy comes along.

[Asker]

But it's like minority

[whirled_up_girl]

Maybe so, but you still have a good chance, why become black-pilled or red-pilled now without at least taking a chance of finding someone. What have you got to lose accept for not finding someone, which is basically what will happen anyway if you just give up. Maybe there a college club or a community volunteer project (if you're not in college) you could participate in to meet women.

[Asker]

I don't like the idea of volunteering just to meet women.

[whirled_up_girl]

Get involed in things is what I'm aiming for, or maybe even join a dating app, what's the harm (and be safe about it of course), I wish I would have taken more chances when I was younger than just always playing it safe and letting guys approach me, sure I dated and had relationships but I feel like I gave up too early, because I didn't feel attractive enough among other things, I just hate to see others make the same mistake that's all.

[Asker]

Dating apps will not work for me. I'm short in height. Most women there want tall.

[whirled_up_girl]

It's up to you buddy what you choose to do, my first crush was shorter than me, I was in highschool and he turned me down, actually in highschool I asked three different guys out and was rejected so I never did that again. I wish I would have in my 20s though, asked guys out, but good luck either way.

[Asker]

But most girls want tall guys, don't you think?

[Shamalien]

Never base your self worth on a woman. Focusing on yourself, building your skills, wealth, and position in society is the way to go. Keep doing that and she’ll come to you, but don’t do it for her, do it for yourself

[Anonymous]

Most men have started to realize that women are not worth the headache or bullshit.

[Agape93]

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