Search Results: being comfortable with myself

For me, personally, if it wasn't for the weather and it being more comfortable when it's hot, I'd only ever wear long clothes.

For me, the ideal outfit to wear is a t-shirt, some sort of jacket over it, some jeans, and some close toed shoes. This applies to myself, and as something I think looks better in general, for both guys and girls.

Anything less then that... including bare arms, bare legs, open toed shoes, bare stomach, bare back, etc... and you kind of in a way look naked to me. Your outfit just sort of looks incomplete, like you need to put on a little extra something to cover up all that sensitive bare skin.

Of course, if it's just too hot, sometimes looking a little incomplete is necessary. And there's nothing wrong with that.

But I'm just saying, if we're just basing it on the visuals, then I'd only ever wear long clothes, and I personally think others look better in long clothes as well.

I’m new to dating apps and currently have more matches than I can handle but I’m really trying to cut down my focus to one girl. She stood out and things have been going well. I’m trying to stay realistic and remind myself that things can fizzle quickly and it’s not good to put your eggs in one basket but I also detest feeling like a player. In offline life I’d just mitigate expectations by explaining my situation to girls and letting them choose whether or not they wanted to stick around knowing that the most likely best case scenario at the moment would be being just friends. On dating apps however it’s implied that the main intent for talking is a potential relationship. I don’t necessarily feel like it’s inherently wrong to continue talking to them it’s just not something I want to do. I just feel more comfortable not trying to juggle people. So what’s the best way to put a potential relationship on hold or completely end it on a dating app?