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So my girlfriend is undeniably a tomboy. She has a rather firm and tough personality, and is really into sports... like soccer, basketball, volleyball, swimming, etc... she also just really likes walking a lot. She's also into theme parks and water parks... such as Universal, or Disney World, or SeaWorld, or Aquatica, or Discovery Cove, etc. She's also into martial arts, she's been at it for two years... and she is indeed quite cunning. She also likes video games, when she's not going out. She's better at those games than I am, though she's just a casual gamer. And when it comes to shows she likes watching, she very often likes shows/movies such as Breaking Bad, Dexter, Game of Thrones, the Godfather, Friends, The Office, etc. Nothing super sappy or that has to do with "girly" stuff. Just mostly gender-neutral shows.

She also keeps her hair short, more or less like a guy... I mean it's not that short, and looks great on her. If she was a guy it'd be long hair, and it has a lot of volume still, but for a girl it's short hair, since it doesn't even go to her chin or shoulders. Sorry to compare her to an anime character, but this childhood character is the only comparison I can think of without putting up my gf's actual picture on the internet, lol.

If you want a picture of a real girl, this is close enough, but I think the anime girl's hair is slightly closer to my gf's actual style, since my gf's hair has slightly more volume.

However, she does have a "girly" side to her. She's very understanding of others' emotions, and she waxes all her body hair off. She wears shorts a heck of a lot... which makes sense, though, since we live in Florida. But she says she absolutely hates body hair, and likes how smooth her body feels without any body hair... which is kind of hilarious to see such a tough girl worry about keeping her skin as soft as possible 😂😂😂

It feels SUPER nice, though. No complaints.

Both are rather obnoxious and unnecessary, but one is slightly even worse than the other.

You could think of both good arguments for why both is worse off than the other.

Sore loser- The sore winner at least earned the right to gloat over their victory by performing well enough to win, whereas the sore loser is just being negative.

Sore winner- A sore winner is worse for a community dedicated to a certain activity (sports, video games, acting, filmmaking, drawing, art, cooking, etc). A sore loser can be laughed at and written off and ignored, but if someone new to a certain activity trying to get good constantly keeps getting made fun of by sore winners, it can completely turn them off of the community.

It also depends on which one you've delt with the most... if you're a loser most of the time, then you've probably dealt with sore winners more. If you're a winner most of the time, then you've probably dealt with sore losers more.

I personally am MUCH more affiliated with losing rather than winning in anything ever, so I rarely deal with sore losers who are angry because they lost to me... I deal most often with sore winners who mock me because they beat me so many times. So I therefore personally find sore winners worse.

But it varies from person to person, and I can't wait to see the poll results and your comments as to why you think a sore loser or a sore winner is worse!

Girlfriend just got all mad at me then told me I’m not allowed to play video games... ( I’m 20 years old) because there’s things to be done around the house. Then takes a nap, so I figured okay I guess it’s being pushed until later, because she literally didn’t tell me anything I was meant to do. So I play a game of league of legends. What happens? She goes nuts about how she just told me a couple hours back I wasn’t allowed to play video games. I just don’t understand. When we first started dating almost 2 years ago I played like 10 hours a day which is unhealthy but she knew I played a lot and since we were long distance it was okay because i always talked to her on Skype while playing, now I’m playing maybe one 40 minute game a day at most but she has a fit over it. I’m also in college right now so the stress of her and not being able to destress sometimes sucks. I’m not an extrovert but I’m trying really hard to go out and about with her whenever she wants. I just get like 0 me time. I love her more than life and she loves me too but she treats me like I’m a child to be bossed around. She’s going back to New Zealand for a bit to see family and I don’t know if it’s time to end it or not. She treats me like shit sometimes but others we have the happiest times I’ve had in my whole life. Every time I try to talk to her about it she just tells me I’m being a baby and she’s not that bad. I had another post a couple weeks ago about her trying to sabotage my diet after I’ve lost 100 lbs and she just cheated on the diet all the time that we were on together and lost none. What do I do guys and girls? I’m having such a hard time, sorry I kind of vented and it became a huge post. If you guys have any advice or opinions please post them. Thanks everyone