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19 years old today.
I have everything. Lucky guy.
BUT I’ve had a very bad few years. I've not achieved the things I wanted to. It’s not been great. Messed up and failed 3 times.

I have one last crack this year of very hard work, to practically transform my life. Once and for all.

I have a bit of depression aswell. Loneliness too. Both of Which I’m slowly fixing actually.

It would also be nice to find a girlfriend. A beautiful, genuine, 100% loyal girl who can accept me for me wholeheartedly. We’re open. And most of all we can keep pushing each other together in the right direction!! It would be amazing to have some support, from someone my age.

I just hope and pray hard to the universe I can fix my whole life and achieve my hearts desires. I just hope they can hear me and grant it.

I hope I can end some of this negativity. Put it behind me. I hope I end up with the things I always wished for. I promise I won’t take it for granted.

I mean 5 years ago I was such a happy boy. I want to get back to this and get even better.
Don’t be fooled. I’m not saint. I’ve done bad things, said bad things to people. Sometimes I’ve made mistakes more than once. I’m only human. I’m working to better myself.
i hope you can truly understand me.

Yours sincerly,
My heart

- She talks to me more than she used to. She’s just always there and chats to me one to one more then she chats to anyone else. (But I’m sure there’s other guys she chats to a lot on an individual basis too)
- She’ll always reply to every message I send even if it’s superficial. (But she could just do this to everyone - she once didn’t reply and she came up to me to apologise when she saw me)
- She came to come and find me on the train at an event we were both going to. I was reading a book and listening to music so she said hi and was about to sit near me but walked away. Then she came back and told me we need to be in the front carriages. Later we found our other friends and she said oh maybe we didn’t need to be in the front carriages and said she thought she was doing a good deed but didn’t want to disturb me. She then said in front of everyone it would have been funny to leave me there and watch me miss our stop. (This could just be that she’s a nice person)
- Others have noticed were always together recently and they watch and smile. (But others could be wrong)
- She keeps referring to us as we. (Probably just the way she talks).
- if I don’t talk to her first, she seems to find a way either to talk to me or get me involved in the group conversation she’s in. (But that could just be her personality - that she goes to talk to people she’s comfortable around - she’s an introvert)
- She remembers a lot of detail like what I was holding on a particular day or what I said. And she follows up at later dates about things I said to her before and asks me about it. (But that could just be the way she is - maybe she remembers detail and likes to ask things)
- a bartender once thought we were together. I was away for the bat by this point but I heard and saw it. She seemed very embarrassed about it. (Maybe she just reacts like this to everything - she can be quite a nervous/stressed person)