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In the past decade, with more awareness, we as a society (coming from a US standpoint ) are sharing more resources regarding abuse the effects of said abuse, whether physical, emotional, or mental. A few of the best ways to deal with it which if one experiences continued abuse by family despite many attempts to perform an intervention. The best solution has been to go, 'no contact, meaning to cut ties with the source of the abuse. Letting the family go as a result.

Many adults have had to do it so they can start anew, but when it comes to dating. This makes me wonder if this makes the now estranged adult look like a huge red flag or unattractive.

What are your thoughts?

My boyfriend of nearly two years said to me this week whilst we were lying in the bed that I had “wide hips”. Well I’m only a UK10/US6 so I don’t consider myself like a kardashian and that is really not what I aspire to be. I just ignored that comment…

The comment that really upset me though was last night. I was in between shaving days for my lady parts (I do a full shave every 2-3 days) and my boyfriend commented how one time having sex he noticed it felt different and I said “what like sandpaper” joking and he said yes!

I go to great lengths to keep myself hair free everywhere and I’m always in the gym trying to look my best. I feel really offended by these two insensitive comments. I asked a male friend and he said that he never would have made either of these comments. I told my boyfriend I was upset immediately after and that he needs to think about what he says before he says it sometimes. He was all apologies but I feel really hurt and unattractive to him