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"I often hesitate to speak up for men and boys, fearing judgment from my fellow women. It breaks my heart to see dear friends viciously criticized by other women simply for supporting their loved ones - fathers, brothers, or grandfathers. Am I truly alone in feeling this vulnerable, or are there others who share my concerns?"
I have seen Women brutally attack each other and teer each other apart and it's not supposed to be like that! Women should not be fighting other women (for defending them she loves)

"I worry about being labeled a traitor to my own gender when advocating for men and boys. Seeing friends attacked for standing up for their male loved ones has left me wondering: am I the only one who feels this way?"

Me and my friend have had similar age preferences for years and that was to stick to men our age. I’m 40, she’s 39. People have been telling us for years to date men who were several years older than us. This includes our parents, aunts and uncles, each other’s parents, family friends, church members, etc. she’s even had friends our own age tell her that she should be dating older men (or so she says). I decided to give it try last spring after my same age boyfriend who had two kids and massive debt dumped me for being “too good” for him (I supported his broke ass financially), and I can say my luck changed drastically. Current guy is 55 years old and we both agreed we’re stuck with each other. At the end of summer, I had a party and invited my friend (recently heartbroken about being dumped but a guy our age for a younger girl), my boyfriend, all of his friends and all of their wives LOVED her. Every one of them and myself all thought she was perfect for a friend of theirs who was looking for someone just like her, so we agree to try to fix them up (the friend had met her once before at a charity event we were working). BF’s friend is also 55, retired, financially secure, gets a pension every month, good Christian, still works part time, has his house paid off and is looking for a woman to spoil rotten. So we pitch the idea to his friend, and the friend’s response is “that girl is a catch! She’s a nice girl with a good heart, she’s doing something with her life and she’s ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL! Yes, please fix me up with her.” I mention it to her and try to convince her to no avail, she won’t date him just because he’s 16 years older than her. I told her she needs to be dating men in their 50’s and early 60’s, not our age. She said NEVER. I told her then that she’s a stubborn asshole who’s throwing away a good guy. Opinions? I want to show this to her to make her realize this is true. Women have been marrying older men for years so it clearly works.

First it was Girls.. now it's Boys Dealing with that situation!

Disclaimer: "Some" girls do want boys. And others don't care what gender they have.

In The past This Topic was a Taboo, and many women feared talking about it, due to The way the world was prior to 2013. Women would often keep this to themselves and had no support regards to these situations. Fast forward to 2024, women dealing with gender dissatisfaction Towards their children received support in masses. We received encouraging messages of oh honey it's okay to be dissatisfied I aetc etc etc.

It buffles me to see how unbelievably well Men deal with Gender backlash in regards to the GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT topics.

29F and I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships