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We have been on and off for 6 years. After the first year he randomly broke up with me. I saw messages between him and his friend talking about how good looking their past experiences had became and his friend was like shame you’ll have to sleep with your girlfriend (me). He then pleaded for me back. And I saw messages between the same friend saying how amazing looking I was. (This friend tried with me before my boyfriend and I rejected him). His friend was saying yeah she’s so stunning. But they must have known I read their messages. But he also said stop talking like that or I’ll sleep with your girlfriend..

Then he got fed up of me being bothered of this conversation. Then broke up with me. Tried his hardest whenever he was out but kept getting rejected. He finally managed to kiss a girl who was really ugly. He even admitted that but that was his type at the time.

Then I moved on (he made a Facebook status calling me a cheat..) after he broke up with me and tried to move on. He begged for me back then. Stalked me on social media. A month later I gave in and got back with him. It was perfect for a month. (He was still always searching girls up on social media’s)

Then he broke it off again but kept sleeping with me. He finally managed to kiss another girl. Who wasn’t ugly. He felt the need to call me ugly randomly but she didn’t want to sleep with him either so he begged for me back. I found out about this a year later.

It’s always like this. Is he just using me or does he genuinely find me attractive and want me? He always claims we get back together because we can’t help it and that we are soulmates.

Did him and his friend stage that conversation

First, he got me pregnant and didn’t want to discuss about the topic. The first thing he asked was where to get the abortion. When he found out I might keep it became angry. He said really selfish and inconsiderate things to me like I will resent you if you let the kid born…I don’t want a beeping child…etc. Lucky for him that I got a miscarriage, and he was just so relieved from that he doesn’t care about my physical health. He then realized how big of jerk he was, apologized, and give him time to fix things.

Not long after, he randomly came to me and told me his friend paid flights/hotel to do some crazy adventure by himself for the weekend…an example, like purposely sleep near people with covid. We live together and he didn’t discuss with me at all. His friends didn’t just randomly did that…they asked him of he’s down and he just said yes excitedly. He purposely didn’t tell me on my birthday because he knew I would be upset. He decided to tell me today. I obviously got upset about it. I did tell him that everything adds up, and this would really add another damage to our relationship. How inconsiderate and selfish can you be for not even discussing this with me…and just do it. He understands and that it makes sense that I’m upset. But, He won’t back down and basically saying he will go. He value his friendship with his friend and cannot be disrespectful to this free trip. He does have the option to pay his friend back…but he rather go have fun and fix the relationship after. It’s very hard to say this but he rather me be upset, damaging the relationship, and go have his weekend. He also lied that his friends bought it without asking the dates. He actually told his friend which exact date.

Then he tried to play it cool and told me to just let this go and suck it up. And that this is only happening because of the pregnancy and miscarriage thing. On top of everything, he missed my dad’s birthday claiming he got the dates mixed up.