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There's this girl who works in another department at the building I'm at. I see her most days, and we were aquatinted before I moved to that building since we share work.
Anyway, a few weeks ago, she, me and a few others were shooting the shit. She asked how old I was and if I was single and we shared some dating stories amongst the group. Me more than others, and she made a comment I'm way to nice to women.
She says hi everytime we see each other and we talk some days. She's told me she is single and she recently got out of a 5 year relationship, and she explained why they broke up.
Today, she was giving me a hard time cause I failed at scaring her when I came in, and then us and another co-worker were talking about houses and condos and stuff, and I brought up I was looking to buy a house, but when I talked about costs, I said I need a roommate. The guy said a roommate would be nice, and the girl said or a girlfriend!!!
We talked about some other shit, and at the end she said I reminded her of her ex. A really nice person, but kinda boring and unexciting, just like him. Also like him, I didn't drink, but he did after they started dating.
She made the comment that I need to be more exciting, like open the door for a gal and slap her ass as she walks through. I said I've done that with my ex's.

That's pretty much where it ended.

Let's just say, that some things are much better confided in a trustful female friend rather than the girlfriend because if it's the other way around, then this can very much display weaknesses in a man and as we all know any weakness in men is as attractive to women as are nagging housewives to us, who won't shut their orifice.

I believe if you need some time to be weak and vulnerable (or to confide something), then let it be with a trusted female friend, who you are not primarily intending to date anytime soon.