He’s giving mixed signals?

[Melodylovelive]

I’ve been dating this guy it’s the first guy I’ve dated in 8 months since a heartbreaking breakup. I admit I’m still kinda hung up on my ex but I like spending time with this guy and being held and kissed by this guy but when it comes to conversation it’s not really there but I still like him we have a lot in common and when I’m not with him I miss him a lot
He says things like I’m his dream girl and everything he wants in a parent and he wants me to meet his kids and be his girlfriend but I’ve been hesitant because I feel like he’s giving me mixed signals
He’ll say things hinting that he wants me to come over and when I ask him if he wants me to because I would like to he’ll say things like yeah but gas and I have something to do in 6 hrs and we haven’t gotten enough sleep
And honestly sounds like lame ass excuses to me because I’m not worried about gas 🙄 $20 fills my tank, I have no problem leaving before he has to go do things and if we both need extra sleep why can’t we sleep together...
I’m starting to feel like he’s not ass interested as he says because he does that a lot and that on top of all his baggage I don’t get why he does this

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I’m not sure I wanna be serious or not with him and the mix signals aren’t helping I do like him though

[Bfly004]

I would keep my distance. You have shown you want to be with him and the excuse for gas is lame. If he really cared about you he would find a way to see you. When someone recognizes greatness in a girl they wouldn't want someone else to have it

[Melodylovelive]

He drives a Prius gas for him is super cheap and gas for me is only 20 for a full tank I only fill my tank once a week so the gas think really annoys me and I usually drive to him anyway because he has more privacy since I’m a full time student and moved back in with my family since my break up and my family house is literally a family house my aunt my mom their boyfriends and all my cousins the bfs kids we all in this bitch it’s a big house and I have the most privacy in the house but it’s still not a lot

[Bfly004]

I understand he might not feel comfortable at your house but a relationship requires balance. You cnt be always going over to his house he also needs to put the effort no matter what

[AlexanderAnttila]

Are the excuses recurring or have they been going on for just a few times?
And do you perhaps in any way express your feelings for your ex in some manner that he picks up on? It could be that which prompts his uncertainty.

[Melodylovelive]

He’s done it like 4xs and I had a meltdown last week about my ex moving on I wasn’t going to say anything about it but he happened to call me while I was crying and he made feel a lot better about everything and invited me over and had me spend 2 nights with him he’s not the jealous type and I’m not really either unless I’m not getting attention at all so we’ve both openly talked about our exes he was openly sleeping with his until a month ago when he said he wanted to get serious with me and stopped and now she hates me

[AlexanderAnttila]

He might not be jealous but just unsure of where you two are at, if you want to be serious with him or not. That or he's just indecisive in general and is going back and forth with himself if he wants this relationship.

[In_Trance]

Jesus... this is a gong show