Lgbt gang help a baby gay out 🤣 why this girl suddenly started giving mixed signals and stopped texting me like she used to?

[Anonymous]

i started talking to a lesbian for the first time in my life we went on a date and everything was good but then suddenly her energy switched up and she started taking too long to reply and when i do the same and ignore her she texts me i miss you or why don’t u text me I couldn’t understand her mixed signals and I really like her

[joe_schmidt]

I'm neither lesbian nor gay, but I have had a few gay friends and interacted quite a bit with that community.

One thing I learned was being gay is really no different than being straight other than it's with the same gender.

So, if she was a guy you went out on a date with and this happened, what would you think or do?

It's possible she's playing hard to get. She's keep you on edge so you're constantly thinking about her which makes her feel important. But when it try to do the same to her, it's possible she gets a quick heart sink thinking maybe she overdid it and wants to make sure you know, even though she's playing games, she doesn't want to lose you.

[Asker]

That was really helpful! Thank you sm

[slatyb]

You’ll have to have a F2F and talk it out. It sounds to me like she’s not that into you. You are something to do when she’s got nothing else going on.

[PrettyPriya]

Not sure it is really any different than any relationship with any gender. I can ask a good friend, but I think she will agree that it has little to do with being a lesbian.

Sounds like maybe she just didn’t click with you. That happens. Sorry to be the one to say it. Maybe suggest a quiet activity like causal lunch and feel out the situation.

@SecretsofKB

[Asker]

Thank you I need to hear that !

[Asker]

Needed*

[PrettyPriya]

You are welcome! The person I tagged may have an opinion. If not, reach out casually and suggest coffee, a walk or lunch, etc.

See if you get a signal from that. I wish you the best of luck. Hang in there! ❤️

[SecretsofKB]

@PrettyPriya

I have nothing to add!! You nailed it.

@curiouscici1

She tagged me because I'm gay. Like she said, hang in there! Any questions, feel free to ask me!!

[PrettyPriya]

Another great system MHO

[Anonymous]

Because she wants you to chase her and give her validation and attention but she isn’t really interested in anything other than that.

[Asker]

Good point of view

[chris_987]

Lol how confusing that even lesbians have a hard time establishing masculine and feminine rolls

[laurieluvsit]

Hi Ms Cici,
Based on what you are saying, I think you might like this film. It is called "Below Her Mouth". I think you will relate to it and it will relate to much of what you are feeling. I know it did for me.

[In_Trance]

Probably because you're giving her mixed signals too

[LegendaryIcon]

wait, so, while you like a girl, you're also fucking a guy?

You need to make up your mind hun, enough of this shit

[Asker]

Lmao relax it was before I started dating her