I am confusion, need some input about a girl I'm talking too, is she giving mixed signals or is it me?

[ZestyZeus]

Well long story short, there's a girl I work with I wanted to speak, but never get the chance too, so added her on fb started talking, both sending long and interactive messages, I ask her if she wants to get coffee and walk sometime or something, she says yes but "I'm actually seeing someone right now, so don't want to give the wrong impression", I'm like aw dammit, but decide she's cool to talk too so why not hang out if she wants, she suggests meeting up because she's visiting somewhere nearby, and we go for a walk and talk and she does the thing she came down for and then we hang out a bit more after and I thought we really got on and clicked, she was very smiley and laughing and talked non stop, and asked me loads of questions and hugged me as soon as she saw me, and even talked about me meeting her sister the next week after I come back from my holiday, but after all that I was away for a week, but I was so happy cus I thought it went so well and then after that I got a reply a day like normal and then nothing for 3 days, and then the replies have been so slow since and she didn't mention me meeting her sister again, but also asked if I was in work and if I wanted to help her with a project and stuff, so I just wanna know am I being crazy or is that major mixed signals?
Any girls or guys with some input would be amazing thanks any that reply and sorry for paragraph 😂

[emperor90]

You can be friends with her but be honest tell you how are u are feeling and also becareful what signals you are giving off

[ZestyZeus]

Yeah I know, I was pretty straight forward from the start and said I would've tried dating her if she was single and stuff and even used the humour of "Now I just need to convince you the other guy is a knob, and think about the petrol money you'd save hah" and she actually said "I'll think about it" and giggled so the plot thickens 🤷‍♂️😅

[TrillXHippy]

She’s giving mixed signals. I’ve experienced that like ugh twice this year. On different occasions in 6 months

[ZestyZeus]

Oh sorry to hear that too, and it's so shit isn't it, like nothing worse than not knowing where you stand, I've learnt the trick is to just try not care as much and be casual but it's still the worst :')

[TrillXHippy]

It’s all good and yep it definitely sucks

[PineappleSummers]

She's just being nice. I think she probably views you as a friend.

[ZestyZeus]

Mhmm I've thought and been told this by other people too :')

[Avicenna]

The sister might not be ready to meet you yet

[ZestyZeus]

Yeah I mean I thought it was a bit much too soon like but I dunno what's going on anymore 😅

[bean2k21]

just be patient things will work out

[ZestyZeus]

Thanks man, I appreciate the positive encouragement :) been mainly getting the opposite 😂😅