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Girlfriend-zone is when a friend or acquaintance, usually male, wants you to become their potential girlfriend or date you seriously.

F**k-zone is when a friend or acquaintance, usually male, wants you to sex with them, like a ONS or friends with benefits arrangement.

So when I was a kid, my brother's friends who were all 2 or 3 years older than me would often pick on me. One, in particular, was sorta fucked up, he would tackle me and dry hump me through our clothes, this was within full view of my brother and my mom on multiple occasions. I blocked it out most of my life but something triggered the memory recently, we happened to be picking him up from his house in my moms' minivan (she was driving), I was like 10 at the most meaning my brother and friends were around 12~13 and I was out of the car so he could get in. He saw me and ran at me, I curled up in a ball as he tackled me, he started humping, I yelled for him to stop and asked for someone to get him off but my mom just sat there as my brother and all his friends laughed at him, went on for I don't know how long but he eventually stopped then we got into the van and before I shut the door he was doing it again, same deal, it felt like an eternity at the time but now it feels like maybe 10 minutes though I'm sure both times are wrong. I didn't understand this for the longest time, but this wasn't normal behavior for someone to display, I remember laughing afterward but I didn't really comprehend what was happening or that it was wrong, only knowing "that's what dogs do to each other", I think I was laughing primarily cause that's what everyone else did and since nobody stopped him then "it must have been okay". I've never spoken to a therapist about this, nor reported him to someone, nor have I confronted my mom or brother about it. It just reappeared in my head one day while I was talking to my friend and she asked if I thought HBO sex scenes made me uncomfortable because of my virginity.

This may not make any sense. But I’m in a relationship I know I shouldn’t be in right now. Im really emotionally tied to this woman named Eve though I know we’re not the right match. I feel like breaking up with this woman is right thing to do. But I go crazy at the thought of Eve with another guy. Does this mean I’m crazy? I dunno how I’m going to handle this when the day comes. Eve is not 100% bad, and there’s lots of good things she does. But it’s a toxic relationship.

Here are the reasons can’t stay with her:

1.
I’m not 100% sure she’s faithful:

Eve has too many male friends. She’s thirsty for attention from other guys and pretends she’s not. Eve also has a history of sleeping around, having one night stands, and has been pregnant and aborted by 2 different men. Now she’s always fronting and barely wants sex with me.

2.
She’s very judgmental and ignorant:

She makes fun of people who are poor, living cheap looking apartment’s and houses. Even laughs at people who wear cheap clothes from Walmart. She always points out bad character traits I’m me and my family. But doesn’t like it when I do the same back to her.

3.
She likes giving attitude:

She always has issues with somebody. For example, she’s always yelling and cursing at people on the road when she drives. She used yell at me frequently until I started yelling back her. She still does it once in awhile, but not as often.

Giving all I said. I still can’t let her go and I don’t know why!