Search Results: make the first move

Should I just give up on being her friend?

I met this girl because her family moved here from a different state. We instantly clicked and we’re the only ones at our job the exact same age so it feels like it would be expected that we’re friends but we got along so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

So what now? Taking a step back means what exactly?

I went on 2 dates with a guy I've met on a dating app and he was actually the sweetest. We instantly hit it off and were both so excited to go on our date and see each other. We went on 2 dates back to back because that's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How do I get her to shoot her shot?

I’ve made a friend at work. We’re the only ones each others age. She has said that we clicked from the first day. When I asked her if she thought we’d be friends if I lived in her hometown she said yes because I’m so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Did she just subtly friendzone me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why can't I stop thinking about this girl, and how can I move on?

I've been stuck on this one korean girl who I've liked for a while. I've never had the chance to confess to her because I wanted us to have more time to connect and also figure out if she liked me in the first place or...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Guy's Behavior

I admit to my crush how I felt… he said, he didn’t like me like that because it’s not reality…but there’s more…what do I do?

First, I am married going through a separation/divorce and have two middle age children. My husband and I have not too much in common. We married each other out of comfort and trauma bonding. We both are not happy with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My family don’t care about me, I’m scared of being alone during Christmas, what should I do? Why are they like this?

It’s very complicated and a long story. My sisters lived with mum and I lived with my dad growing up. Dad worked away so my former step mother looked after me and she was extremely abusive. Fast forward to now (I’m an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy chose to ghost when I had already given him opportunities to back out of our “situationship”?

Ok, so I just don’t get this guy. The first opportunity was when I told him about what was going on in my personal life and literally said I totally understand if you want to walk away now, but it’d be great if you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Ladies: How do you convey Interest to a guy to be asked out?

A lot of women in this site complain about either not being asked out or being harassed. In the real world it can be impossible for a guy to navigate a maze of contradicting body language. I never approach girls who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why won’t she make a move on me?

I’ve made a friend at work. We’re the only ones each others age. People assume we’re besties and she has said that we clicked from the first day. When I asked her if she thought we’d be friends if I lived in her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Can you help me understand what to make of the situation between us?

so basically about a month ago is started dating my best friend of 14 years. and its been going amazing. dating the girl I've been crazy about for years, we enjoy being with each other hang out a lot etc... well a few...

zes0511

Xper 3 Age: 36

Relationships

Why is it being hard to make friends in your senior year?

It's a new school year for me, my last one honestly, I am a senior. I used to be a newcomer and have some newcomer classes where I had many friends, yet slowing my schedule been changing until the point where now I do not...

Cheulyn

Xper 4 Age: 20

Other

What was your last/best accomplishment of a goal you set for yourself?

Big night for me the other night. My beer league hockey team won the championship for our summer league!🏆 This was really big for me because it was just a few years ago when I moved home to take care of my dad after my...

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

Dating

Guys, Says he doesn’t date coworkers but?

Spent some time with this guy at work, schedules vary so we don’t always see each other. The first time we really talked at work, we got a little personal but lighthearted and the subject of dating was brought up. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Says he doesn’t date coworkers but I feel this energy between us?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did I messed up? Is there any chance or hope? Or did my father told me BS?

A guy that acted a bit weirdly: friendly, teasingly, jokingly,... Well it was ambiguous and of course I fell. At first I only viewed him as a friend and he is genuinely kind and thoughtful, asking me when I last eaten,......

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is our friendly vibe turning romantic?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Younger sister got blackout drunk and ruined my evening, how do I get over it?

I went to a concert with friends recently and my sister (almost 40 adult) got blackout drunk. I did not make it into the concert due to the blacking out and instead was in the med tent with her. This was my first time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Does she want me to make the first move?

I’ve made a friend at work. We’re the only ones each others age. She’s from a different state and the conversation between us is great and people assume we’re best friends and customers have called us “partner in crimes”....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Relationship advice, please?

I'm gay to make the story as short as possible my first girlfriend move in with me got engaged then later cheated on me with her ex broke up with her after a month she came back asking for forgiveness and I did we where...

SweetDisaster

Xper 5 Age: 38