Search Results: what does it mean when a guy says

I have always been curious about this, as I rarely get attracted to people. I just find people more or less interesting than attractive. I have, however, had people say my qualities are very attractive, but I do not know what they imply? I have watched some guys that my friends were interested in saying they found them attractive but nothing was done, or sometimes something happened, but there might be a third party influence in this.

Can someone be attracted to you romantically, or can people be attracted as friends too? I thought through friends, it was "compelling" or "felt drawn to", but that might be the same thing as attraction?

There is a guy at work that mentioned during my interview that I seemed pretty cool (not necessarily as a compliment). He avoids me and acts pretty disinterested but can strike up conversations with everyone else. Do people avoid other people with a different temperament or does he just find me boring as a person? I don’t think he is the most interesting person either. He will act comfortably and nice to me in groups but aloof when we are alone. Sometimes when he is with others or when I talk to others he tries to get my attention by greeting me, turning away and smiling to himself. Does he think I’m not important enough to talk to until he sees me with others? Why does he act weird around me?