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I have a question for you girls and guys about something that I've noticed over the years. I think the vast majority of girls I attract are of the same type. It doesn't matter if they're girls I notice looking at me in public or in bars (yes, by now I can spot they're of that type without even talking to them), girls who approach me in bars or at parties or girls who fall for me after I've known them for a while.

It's a particular type of girl. They can be (a bit) shy or outgoing (some approach me) and below or above average, but mostly average, in terms of looks. What they have in common is that they're very sweet (as in will bake you cup cakes on Sundays), naive (from my perspective), a bit doe-eyed and submissive, very caring and homely, college educated but not intellectual or very ambitious (a good lot of them would probably stop working when they have kids), they tend to have had their lives in good order since they were kids like your typical "good" girl and there's not a rebellious bone in their body. There's nothing really wrong with them and I know a lot of guys are looking for girls like this but they're just not my cup of tea (which I've had to learn from experience). Recently I've come to the conclusion I'd probably be much happier with a stronger, more independent girl who challenges me and is intellectual and ambitious (I really don't care if she can't cook or doesn't look like a perfect 10) but it seems very hard for me to get/hold the attention of such a girl.

So what do you think explains me attracting this type of girl so often?

I saw in another question, a statement from a user called "paulina_g" (https://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q1964252-ladies-girls-when-was-the-last-time-you-got-approached-how-did-he ) where she says: "I don't want to be approached on the street."

I wonder if that holds true for all girls. Sadly I don't like going out in clubs/bars and actually live in one of the Nordic countries, like paulina_g, so I really hope this isn't a popular opinion in the Nordic countries... but sure seems like it