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Me & my girlfriend Amber have to together for a year. We barely have sex and I’m sexually frustrated. It really pisses me off that amber refuses and makes up excuses most of the time. When we do have sex she acts like she’s doing me a favour.

Every time we have an argument. Amber complains that she doesn’t get what she wants, and mentions that she gives me sex once a week. I know relationships are not 100% about sex. But it doesn’t make sense to stay with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to me.

Amber has a history of being a slut. She herself told me she used to date two guys at once. And for that same reason is why her and her dad didn’t talk for years. She clearly wants the dick and been around the block. So why is she acting like this?

Amber evens talks about her sex life with her ex. She complains that they barely had sex and he cheated. And how she thinks it’s abuse to not have sex with your partner.

Amber talks about marriage, wants to introduce me to her dad in a month. But I don’t think I can go through with this. I feel like I’m a simp, loser, the nice guy finishing last.

I know I’m not the best boyfriend either. She complains that I don’t text her unless I message her first. Which is somewhat true, but. I also forgot to charge my phone at night. Then when I’m at work I don’t keep my phone on me. Due to the fact that I work in a hospital. But still, that’s not reason for her to act like this.

The reason I stayed is because does a lot for me. For example, my car is in the shop and she picks me up from work whenever she has time. And cooks for me when she has food at her house.

This is from a terrifying case i read about in which a guy probably 17-18 years old groped and bullied a girl of the same age and the girl kicked him in his testicles so hard that he lost both his testicles (removed by surgery due to rupture) and also had to go through a urethral repairation surgery (8-12 hr long major surgery) to fix his broken penis. Now i feel very bad for that boy because even though what he did was very wrong but he certainly did not deserve that...
He can not have kids, Having no testicles will finish his sex life and problems like no body strength, male breast, no more masulanity and taking pills of testosterone for the rest of his life along with so many problems
Treatments and life long medicines + the surgery are aslo a lot of money he and his family has to pay now.
Where as the girl would walk away with nothing but just appreciated for her brave action.
But as i dived deeper into the case i also came across the fact that the girl knew karv maga (a form of martial arts) and could have used many other methods to run away.
As the definition of self defence is " to use the bare minimum amount of force required to run away from attacker and not harm the attacker more than he/she intended to hurt you"
Infact using exxesive force in self defence is a punishable crime.
Now i dont know what happened later on to that boy and the girl and i am very curious.
That is why i am asking you guys. What according to you should happen to them if you were in power
Ps. I really hope that the girl gets sued or at least is made to pay for his hospital bills.