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Search Results: guys and long term relationships
Why do I miss someone who mistreated me?
I was in a long term situation with a guy I've come to understand is narcissistic. He and I started off supposedly in a relationship. However, he started being inconsistent and ghosting me. This went on for 3 years....
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Are guys attracted to young looking AND petite women?
I am 25 years old and I constantly get mistaken for being 15-18 years old. On top of that I am 4”11 and unfortunately a bit underweight- 90 lbs. Being somewhat twin like to a child, I wonder how men will find me...
sunnydaye
Xper 2 Age: 29 How can I stop cheating?
I know I’m going to get a lot of hatred for this, but I cheat. Right now I’m dating two guys and I’m freaking out because both strongly see something long term. I am very ashamed of it. Very ashamed. And I need to...
Anonymous
(25-29) If A couple breaks up but the agree’s to try again in a few months later after they’ve had time to heal, Should both sides stay single during this?
My Ex-fiancé and I recently broke up. 2 and a half years down the drain. Well, she broke up with me. So The short of it is we were together for a long time, and living together for a little over a year and a half. We...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would you have a girl get close to your family if you are only wanting friendship?
My best guy friend and I are super close. He has been a close friend of mine got about 6 months even though he has known me over a year. I just got out of a toxic long term relationship and he has been there supporting...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you choose love or convenience?
I am a single girl that had two long term relationships over her life time. I’m still connected to both of my exes and both of them would like to get back together, the thing is I want them both for different reasons...
Anonymous
(30-35) In praise of some desirable (yet unsung!) qualities in a woman
If you look out into the world of popular culture, media and academia today you can get a sense of what the general zeitgeist or “society” suggests is of great value in a woman. This includes things like physical beauty...
Anonymous
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Mhmmmalreadykno
Xper 5 Age: 23 Am I asexual or am I lying to myself about not wanting a relationship?
I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 27), I’ve just never gotten...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer
Exotic Dancers Are performers, like any other dancer/performer. Despite popular belief, they are not sex workers of any kind. While there are some cases of dancers who will accept offers for more, the majority do not. For...
Completely heartbroken over a guy I didn’t officially date, are my feelings valid?
We had dated for a few months steadily but not officially serious or with labels. I saw him weekly, spent hours with him and sex involved. Saw him a few times randomly the rest of the year but things got complicated...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy wants to commit?
This guy I'm talking to seems like someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship or does casual dating without being exclusive. He has a few hook ups or girls whom he casually sees. Earlier, he would be gone for...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, do you think I qualify for a relationship?
I’ve never been in a relationship or have talked to a guy. I’m going to list cons and maybe pros about myself. It would be nice to hear guys perspective or what I could improve on. Pros (I think?): - I don’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can I be asexual or am I lying to myself about not wanting a relationship?
I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 27), I’ve just never gotten...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does he keep telling me reasons he doesn't want to date me even when I don't ask?
My guy friend and I are very close. We talk all day everyday. We hang out almost everyday even if just a few mins. We go out to each a lot most of the time just the two of us and one time with his mom and sister. We often...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why Would You Move In With Someone Who Can't Adult?
This question came from a viral Reddit post in in which a woman wanted to know if she was in the wrong for refusing to move in with her boyfriend unless he learned some life skills on his own. She said , "I'm 20F, my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Men, what do you need or expect in a long term relationship to be Emotionally satisfied? ?
Trying to figure out the disconnect in marriage. I hear more often than not it’s Communication, but I feel it’s more towards Emotional needs and maybe Sexual needs. Just looking to see what other men say because no one is...
Curiousity5832
Xper 2 Age: 43 Crush is a slow texter?
I'm always the one initiating conversations with this guy I like, and sometimes he replies within a few minutes to a couple hours. If he is online when I text he'll reply immediately. But sometimes he has taken 2 days to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, have you gotten to the point where you are so good at meeting women for sex that a normal relationship seems unvaluable?
What I'm asking is based on my own development: When I was bad at getting women, I preffered being in a long-term relationship and investing emotionally, financially, and temporaly (=time). However, Covid has forced me to...
shadowowner
Xper 3 Age: 36 Why did he ghost me and came back when he didn’t want anything serious?
Long story short: I (21F) dated this guy (20M) for two weeks (we texted 3 weeks on a dating app before meeting) and we moved REALLY fast (doing couple things/pda and hooking up). I liked him but it felt like we didn't...
Lemonstartea
Xper 3 Age: 26 