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In an argument he said take a long look in the mirror at it and you’ll see how bad it really is. Said it was saggy and wrinkly and bad big

I should probably say I’m not overweight at all. I’m a size xxs a uk size 4 so American size 0 I do have a really big bum. Like the size of somerrays but it’s not a fit worked for bum. It’s natural so is a “big fat ass” and does have cellulite.

But always said it was amazing and big fat ass and he loved it.

He also said the only thing that saves it is when I’m in doggy position or in leggings because it hides how bad it is.

After a while he said he just said those things to be nasty and he actually does love it etc but when he compliments me mainly it’s in leggings and says omg your bum looks so good in them and can’t get over how good my bum looks.

Was he telling the truth in anger or just to hurt me?

Long story short, not to criticize, I'm just giving a description of how she looks and her health. Details: She has always taken jabs at me on the job for being fit. She'll ask me intrusive questions like," Are you still losing weight? What size are you now? You don't need to lose any more weight." I've never asked her for her opinion. Yet she's overweight, feet/legs/arms swollen, high blood pressure , on multiple medications, has glaucoma, can't drive. I've never once brought up how unhealthy she is despite knowing her circumstances. Now her husband has died because, like her, he didn't take care of himself.

Her mother is just as overweight with the same health issues, including heart failure, yet her mother said ," omg you're getting too skinny!" I told the mom, " I'm healthy and not on multiple medications , don't have heart failure, and swollen ankles like you. Are you feeling okay?" She then said oh um well did I say something wrong? "I said," Oh no, you didn't bother me. I'm just saying. Now they're trying to be all nice to me, but I'm keeping my distance. This is a work setting, by the way.