In an argument my boyfriend said my bum was bad big and it was saggy and gross and wrinkly but always said it was an amazing big fat ass?

[Anonymous]

In an argument he said take a long look in the mirror at it and you’ll see how bad it really is. Said it was saggy and wrinkly and bad big

I should probably say I’m not overweight at all. I’m a size xxs a uk size 4 so American size 0 I do have a really big bum. Like the size of somerrays but it’s not a fit worked for bum. It’s natural so is a “big fat ass” and does have cellulite.

But always said it was amazing and big fat ass and he loved it.

He also said the only thing that saves it is when I’m in doggy position or in leggings because it hides how bad it is.

After a while he said he just said those things to be nasty and he actually does love it etc but when he compliments me mainly it’s in leggings and says omg your bum looks so good in them and can’t get over how good my bum looks.

Was he telling the truth in anger or just to hurt me?

Telling the truth

Trying to hurt me

[Finchie40]

I’m sorry but that’s a reason to dump his ass. When a partner starts pointing out things on you during an argument , then that means whatever they pointed out on you , has already crossed their mind and that means they already thought about it , so now that they are using it against you during an argument, just shows how they really feel about you. Someone that truly loves you wouldn’t be pointing out those things on you period because they love you for
You , your boyfriend only loves what he can receive from you , but he truly doesn’t love you for you . He will compliment your ass when he wants sex just so he gets sex from you. There is truth in just

[bowenw]

It's difficult to say without seeing it, but he was most likely trying to hurt you and is generally disrespectful.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Flower7]

I feel like what people say when they are angry or drunk is the truth.

[Flower7]

Also, I don’t understand how he feels like your butt becomes less visible in doggy position. Isn’t that the time when it would be seen the most?

[Ninania]

He wouldn't have said that if he actually loved you.

[Anonymous]

Dump him. Never be with a man who disrespectd you like that. That is in no way ok.

[zombiewoof]

Is he an ex yet

[Asker]

Yes but why would he say that? Is he being truthful?

[zombiewoof]

I can not see it, but guess he was trying to hurt you