My boyfriend says he is a bum guy and loves big bums but has only been with the opposite before me?

[Anonymous]

He says he loves big bums and doesn’t care for boobs or their size. Yet before me he’s only been with big boobs and inverted bums like no bum at all. I’m the first person with a big bum and small boobs. He said he doesn’t care when it’s just sex and that’s what that was before and why he went for girls with no bums.

But a guy who likes big boobs would never settle for someone with small ones so he isn’t really a big bum or bum guy is he?

All the models he likes etc do all have big bums and some have bigger boobs some have literally no boobs.

He’s lying about being a bum guy

He is a bum guy

[RespectfulGuy]

There no need to "trust*, but you can begin by giving him the benefit of doubt.

With this first step, nurture the relationship. Get to know him better.

The key is to discover who he really is and do you like this person?

And in the process of knowing, you'll also see his weaker side. Can you accept them?

And when you're able to answer the questions above, butt or boob issue will be resolved.

Finally, when you commit to the relationship and have sex, he'll see it all. That time, you could be surprised (if he's really mature), butt or boob means little to him than your personalities.

[236color]

Well, truthfully women with big boobs and no bum, have most likely had implants. You can't put a 20 story skyscraper on a 2 bedroom bungalow foundation. Now as for what he's attracted to, not sure. You can end up with someone who isn't you physical ideal.

[Anonymous]

Third option. You’re making this into something bigger than it is. We me can change what we like if the girl has a good personality. Just cause a man says he likes a phat ass or big tits isn’t a be all end all. There’s exceptions. Stop making trouble where there’s no trouble.

[Sunrising]

He probably thinks your personality is better than boobs or bums, and settles for what you have.

[bowenw]

Hopefully he cares more about personality than anything superficial.

[Anonymous]

I don't see how all this should really matter. The KEY is for good honest communications

[Sam1133]

What's your boobs size?