My boyfriend told me I have a small butt?

[Anonymous]

I exercise everyday. I lift weights and do cardio and eat right.
I do everything I can for my butt to look nice.
He says its on the smaller side. Is that bad? Guys like nice big butts, right?
How could he say something to me like that when he know how hard I work at the gym everyday :(
Only makes me more insecure. I don't want to show him my ass ever again right now. Im so embarrassed by this.

[BellePepper]

You need to talk with him about this not us. Tell him what you told us and then see what his response is. And then you need to take a BIG step back and look at what's going on within yourself.

YOU know you go to the gym every day.
YOU know you work hard.
YOU know you eat well.

But

You aren't communicating.
You aren't making your own decisions.
You aren't making your own judgments about your *own* body.

You have your own voice and your own feelings and they are not lesser than anyone else's. Your opinion of your body comes waaaaaaaaaaay before you boyfriend's. You have to appreciate you before anyone else truly can.

[Anonymous]

Just bc you have a small but does NOT mean you don't have a well defined butt from working out. I'm sure you look fine. Would you rather have a blob of butt?

[RedRobin]

It depends on the guy, some like big butts others like small butts

[SlightlyCrazy]

Fuck him you try so hard and you don't deserve that. The people ou love shouldn't ever make you feel like that. I bet your beautiful, ass included

[RedRobin]

Lol,

[SlightlyCrazy]

@RedRobin seriously I kinda want to see this butt it sounds pretty great with the whole working out and eating right thing going for her

[Pat8707]

I think you'll break your neck if you tip your fedora any more.

[zorro8888]

Small butt doesn't mean it's not nice, sounds like what you have is toned. I don't think he meant it in a bad way.