He said my butt was too big?

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I felt really insulted when my boyfriend said to me that my butt was too big. I know that I shouldn't be offended, but it really hurts when a guy says something like this.

I'm know that I'm not fat because I exercises daily and I'm pretty fit, but I still have curves and a lifted butt. But doesn't guys like when a girl is a bit curvy, but still fit?

What should I do? It feels like he's comparing me to other girls who are more skinnier than me, which hurts me the most.

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

I agree with @DizzyAster, how did he say it? I mean, yes, it is rude and insensitive to say, but I also disagree that men just have to accept it and deal with it. We need to be open and honest with each other in a relationship. If there are things we are afraid to mention, then that's a problem! If there is something going on in the relationship that we don't like, we do have the right to voice it. Now, that being said, there are nicer ways to say negative things that can be hurtful no matter how we say it. At the end of day, at least he was honest with you and told you how he felt. So basically, is what he wants unattainable with you? Is it unrealistic? Is he just picking a fight? Did you take his comment the wrong way? Maybe the comparing to other women thing is only in your head? You need to talk about it with him. Open and honest communication is key to a successful relationship.

Zer0Ghost · Accepted Answer

If he wants to compare so much he can take his ass on to someone skinnier, no one deserves to be belittled like that

Justacatlady · Accepted Answer

That was rude. If you are healthy and feel good about yourself, tell him to keep his mouth shut. If he can't say nice things to you, he need not say anything at all

linds34 · Accepted Answer

Of course you should be offended, that's a mean thing to say! If he wants so stay your boyfriend, he should apologize and not insult your appearance in the future.

awanti95 · Accepted Answer

Being a girl I have big butts and I love sex please

DizzyAster · Answer

How did he say it?
Did he say, "Your butt is too big, I don't like it."
Or
"WOOP, WOOP, pull over, that ass too fat!"

I've told my big booty girl her booty's too big, right before I stuck my face in it!!

Nandor · Answer

I like flat ass whats who I am

miaferrera · Answer

Girl, bye.

Anonymous · Answer

Kick his penis.

DanielKaluuya · Answer

he's a bitch

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