Why are guys obsessed with huge butts?

[Clementine01]

Why are guys so obsessed with huge butts
I got dumped because my ex said "your ass isn't' big enough"
I don't understand why that is such a huge issue
Why can't little booties get some loving too lol
Now I feel like I will never get a boyfriend unless i get slim thick (right now my bum isn't too phat but i have a little tummy but I kinda have curves)

[Anonymous]

I love big butts, I cannot lie. But cute little butts are nice too. You can’t blame a man for wanting an attractive woman, specially if they take pride in their own appearance. Not saying it isn’t shallow, just that it is common. Just doing some exercise to firm up your butt or doing weights and protein dieting to make it bigger wouldn’t hurt, but there will always be men out there who are into whatever wagon your carryin’.

To me a bit butt is just really sexy. Don’t really know why. Just catches your eye i suppose and looks hot during sex and when nude or in underwear or tight clothing.

[sc15022]

Some guys really like butts, it just varies from guy to guy. I prefer a decent shape instead of just a big butt cause then you could say that a 300-pound woman would have the most attractive ass you could find.

If you posted a pic, it'd be easier to help you, but I'd just say get to squatting :P

[Nyxopheles]

If you think about it scientifically, males will often go towards a female who has a wider butt because it relates to fertility in the sense that their body has enough fat in their system to produce milk, meaning that they're fertile and ready to have sex.

Otherwise a lot of it has to do with personal preference.

[Wafflesareamazballs]

That man is trash! If he says your ass ain’t big enough then turn around slap him and say “Your dick wasn’t big enough then.” flip your hair and exit very quick.

[MaddyMax]

I don't get why people love them so much either, but if someone breaks up with you over that then he is a fuck boy and a waste of space.

[SapphireFox]

You dodged a bullet there! Anyone who would break up with you for such a superficial reason isn't worth your time.

[BeyondCuriosity]

Guys have different preferences on that. I'm all about big butts, but having a small butt does not disqualify someone either. Main thing that needs to be said here is that your ex is a damn fool. He knew what kind of butt you had before he got with you. If it was going to be a deal breaker that you didn't have a big butt, why did he even initiate a relationship? He's an asshole, and there are plenty of guys I know that do not share my preference for big booties. You'll do just fine finding a guy.

[dizmuhjam]

this explains what and why.

https://youtu.be/-9NmyEtovc4

[dizmuhjam]

The first one is regarding your case I think.

[jimyee]

He sounds like a dork. There are still plenty of guys who prefer little bootys and even more guys who even if they liked big butts, they wouldn't leave you because yours wasn't big enough.

[HoraceB]

A prophet named Sir-Mix-A-Lot explained it in his 1992 song, Baby Got Back", better than any of us could.

[winterfox10]

They're sexy and fun to grab! Honestly the obsession started in the 80s and 90s with the rise of black beauty. Big butts were always of interest in the black and hispanic communities.

[NathanStrat]

I love petite girls, I actually dumped a girl cuz her butt was HUGE!!! I hate big butts.

[Yuki_Yui]

First of all. Your ex is a douch. Second of all. Its because they like to have something to hold on to. And it's sexy.

[Browneye57]

They don't. And you can't change yours. Just find a guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are.

[JosyJosy]

Some guys just like butts, others are crazy about breasts

[Nerdking]

More to hold onto i guess, but I've never really cared about something like that i prefer grabing breasts.

[Nasti_Nate]

Some men love curves like me I also love a big ass but honestly I'd rather have a nice little bubble butt lol

[imwithstupid]

smart guys are not obsessed with huge butts. I think you are "lookin for love in all the wrong places"

[Russwill]

Need to see picture of yo backside to make that call ! If nice bottom or not! He may just like real big butts...

[ausernameforgag]

Only people who watch to much porn would dump you for that

[ashish804]

May be ur boyfriend was small enough to handle ur butt... I lovv them

[COCOCHANEL]

i get told the opposite. the world is full of extremes.

[Premihoo]

huge butts takes more space in any place while little are adjustable at anywhere so i think both has their own advantage

[vannanas]

for the same reason women find muscles attractive, we are taught to

[Anonymous]

With age (something between 17-21) guys stop caring about looks that much as they used to before that age. Of course looks still matter but not everyone is looking for a big butt... hope you know im saying

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes we like girls with big butts.