I am a female and I have no butt. Why are guys so obsessed with women with bigger butts?

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I am a college student and I am extremely insecure about my body. I feel as though I am pretty in shape because I have good arms, legs, and a pretty flat stomach. However, I absolutely have no butt. Whenever I start talking to guys, the first thing they ask for if we exchange snapchats is a picture of my "ass." This makes me insecure obviously because I have nothing to show. And guys that ask for pics right away are not worth my time. However, I am beginning to not like my body and to not feel confident anymore because it seems as though guys are only into you have a big backside. Are there any guys out there that upon physical attraction do not immediately look at a girls butt?

_NoOodle_ · Accepted Answer

Don't worry, not all boys are obsessed by butts :-p Personally, i give overall very low importance to the butt shape of a girl. I am more of a boobs guy and more than that, the face itself and my natural appreciation (which is relative to each of us) is the most important factor about if i find a woman attractive or not.

Don't worry about you're butt, I'm 100% sure someone will love it as it is :-)

And tell me if I'm wrong, does the fact that you're butt is flat makes it fell less pleasant when you get it caressed by a hand you love?

Love, peace, happiness, hugs and cuddles

dogbert444 · Accepted Answer

A butt is used when sitting down for a number of functions. It's not the most important attribute a lady has!

I prefer small ones, whether round or flat. Overall, though, it's just a small part of what makes a lady. For me, I look at her eyes. They tell you so much about her.

Don't lose confidence. There ARE guys who are more sincere than to worry about the size of your butt.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have big butt by genes, and I've been squatting and it got so big to the point that my pants don't fit no more. Guys go crazy and turned on when I talk to them or pass by. It doesn't feel amazing cause you feel so sexsualized, they treat you like a thing, they follow you like horny dogs and always always want to touch you. I like intellectual conversations and guys don't take me seriously cause of that. Don't be insecure about your body, we all have problems :)

somebodysaycheese · Accepted Answer

Big boobs look better than small/none. Round butts look better than flat, round hips look better than a straighy body, small defined waist looks better than a box waist. It just looks better to people. Do squats like most girls who dont have naturally big butts.

KittieCat · Accepted Answer

Evolution tends to be thrown in as a reason, but it's mostly because of media and personally, round proportional (some like big) asses just look good. I don't know it just flows right with a more feminine body. Have you tried building mass in your butt?

AdviseNoob0xFF · Answer

As a guy, it seems that other guys just like big butts due to sex related thoughts.

Ignore it. There are plenty of people with all sorts of tastes out there.

If it is only down to something this superficial, why would you want to get involved anyhow? It probably wouldn't bode well longer term, and you sound like an intelligent lass. That can be very powerful in the grand scheme of things.

Just do what you do, ignore them lot and at some point someone is bound to take note of you for all the right reasons (as, success is attractive, and success can only achieved by mastering it as an art).

Krillanr · Answer

Your mistake is listening to the pop culture chatter.
I dislike the big butt fad. So I'm sure that I would have no problem with your butt.
I'm not that unique, so many people would like and even love your butt.

For the other bit, I'm not desperate or driven by lust. So I don't only consider looks when it comes to women.

Being that men are quite visual in our interests, it would be difficult to deny that a girls body is taken into account. But again, you would find that many men would be attracted to ya, no matter the type of butt you had.

JuicyBrain · Answer

I could not care less about butts. I care more about who you are and if you don't repulse me. If I find you relatively attractive and you have a nice personality, it's all I need to be potentially interested.
You are right when you say that guys who ask for pics right away are not worth it (at least in your case). They are not looking for the same thing you are. At least, they're not wasting your time.

genericname85 · Answer

it´s just a media hype. most acutal guys don´t care so much.

LifeChoices · Answer

Because it's like what you see when you visualise sex with a chick. I personally love jiggly lean muscles on a chicks ass. Just how females would get turned on by a veiny penis rather than a micro one, butts do it for me. If your so self conscious you could always do weighted squats with a better diet. You will definitely improve, you may not be no model but you will have something to show for it

Anonymous · Answer

For evolutionary reasons. Remember our ancestors walked on all fours... and that part of the body was what males used to see primarily. (Female primates has smaller breasts back themn.)

A muscular athletic bottom signals good health, and best reproductive potential.
It's not about having it "big", but in good shape and visible.

You really like the most brainless men, yet. Then you have to come to terms with their mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay firstly butts are just the new thing. Secondly if you are unhappy with your butt, squats and lunges. Thirdly don't give any attention to someone who only likes you for that

Maik567 · Answer

Guys like round asses, I can't really explain why but that's just how it is. It's not the end of the world if your ass is flat but it's a little bit unattractive to be completely honest. You could always do squats and work out on your ass.

Nomad69 · Answer

Big butts don't lie lol I like big butts but also don't mind if they have a smaller ass no big deal. Do squats, start exercising if its bothering you that much or just pig out on food and get a fat ass that way

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I'm a flat butt girl myself. I am also single, but hoping there isn't a correlation between the two.

AriadneSky · Answer

guys who want anal or obsessed with doggy and can't handle eye contact or actual intimacy, are gonna care about big butts, so its just as well you get to weed the guys out.

NYkid27 · Answer

I actually don't like big butts. Pretty much all of the girls I'm attracted to have small to medium sized butts

SammyCakes · Answer

I have no clue.. But most white boys go for a pretty face.. It just depends of who u talk to. I get a lot of attention from black boys due to my butt.
Mexican boys like booty too. But they shure know how to work it :P

Asadi · Answer

there are so many guys obviously who do not want to see just ur butt pic  u just did not find the right guy

abundantlyrich · Answer

Guys from internet asking for nudes are not real people. Just a bunch of phantoms pranking on insecure girls.

Mysterio421 · Answer

Because it's more attractive. It gets us turned on.

NightOwl8801 · Answer

I like booty but I'm more attracted to a woman's heart and mind. You're beautiful no matter what

Blown4life · Answer

I like a pretty or decent face.. I also like thighs & booty, but those are bonuses

Anonymous · Answer

It is a ghetto thing that is making it to mainstream. It is a fad for whites.

Anonymous · Answer

YES! I for one much prefer a smaller ass. Tits are much more important!

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

Why? Cause its more girlie/feminine look, thats ass and boobs which makes woman a real woman. Most of guys prefer woman with curves, like you prefer taller guys or muscular guys.

Fuentes · Answer

I like skinny girls sense this fake butt craze came out

Pilulu · Answer

Who cares? As long as you have a butt then you're good. Plus, its probably not east having a big butt.

anonman32 · Answer

because of evolution, go to the gym and squat yourself an ass.

Touglyforfemales · Answer

I like tits better don't get the whole big round ass thing.

FakeName123 · Answer

Biologicaly speaking the fat a woman stores in her butt and thighs are the key fat-sources for pregnancy. It implies that you are good childbearing material = physical attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

I like girls with smaller butts, honestly, I don't find big butts that attractive. I on the other hand, want a girl to have big boobs

Quick90 · Answer

When you say you have no butt do you mean you have a small butt or is it flat

HaveNoName · Answer

You are getting attention from the wrong guys.

Summer_Bunny · Answer

Because big butts are nice Lol

Raymond_Reddington · Answer

Theys booties meaning nothing to moi!

Supersonic_Sex_Ninja · Answer

I see more women obsessed with a big ass.

SovereignessofVamps · Answer

just ignore them lol

PlzJustDie · Answer

Toned ass > all

Scared_Banana · Answer

Just looks better.

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