i just dont see it as seems to be 90% of guys love so called curvy when to me there just being nice about their weight aren't they only curvy due to fat and love handles along with the term thick i believe its only a nice alternative way of calling a girl obese. Hate on me all you like but im attracted to what seems to be the far less popular body type of the petite fit chicks with a SMALL FIT butt. NOT skinny or bony butts but no muscular girls either. with or without thigh gap tho i prefer it. Because to me what catches my eye on a girl before i get to know their personality those features catch my attention. Because a girl that strives to stay healthy and thin and loves to be active is someone I want to be with and not a girl who is chubby or doesn't care to take care of themselves. Thus one of my best friends she thinks big butts are disgusting and she's the type i like and she brought up a REALLY good point to girls with big butts is that just wait till they get old its gonna be sagging and hanging down all gross like bleh xP. Even a girl that IS petite and fit, healthy, thin, and with or without a thigh gap but yet still has a big butt even though it is smooth and toned like the bubble butts from the girls that do squats all the time for a big bubble butt I STILL dont care for it. I dont know why other guys like me aren't very attracted to The FIT Much Smaller butts that are not boney or flat but just perfectly sized with their petite body type? LIKE THE PICTURE BELOW IS IN MY EYES THE PERFECT SIZE AND BODY TYPE! šš
Common sense. This is like asking why girls are attracted to guys with visual indicators of high testosterone like broad shoulders or defined chests. Big butts, big breasts and curves in general are indicators of fertility, and they are things that physically separate men and women in terms of visual appearance. Estrogen and all that. Pretty straight forward. Thereās tons of scientific backing for this preference. Nothing wrong with liking small butts though. You do you, but Iām pretty sure liking big butts is simply the instinctive default.
I'd say that's a good thing too because all you have to do is squats to make your butt look bigger if you're a girl.
Just because a girl has a big butt doesn't mean it's because she doesn't exercise and try to take care of herself. Most times they honestly cannot help it because of their genetics.
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Yes I realize this and why I stick to you the girls I like
Lol well. I'm just glad that men's tastes are diverse and that there are men who appreciate my somewhat big booty.
I don't think I'm obese though, not even fat. I'm slim everywhere else, slim stomach, small boobs, slender wrists but kinda big arms, except everything below the waist is "cushioned" haha. Thick legs, plump butt, thick thighs.
Not too sure. Maybe cause it's the current trend because flat butts were in style before. But I can assure you you aren't the only guy who likes fit butts. There are plenty out there.
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i don't like FLAT the picture i shared isn't flat unless you compare it to the UGLY Kim Kardashian.
I know that. I said in the past flat was in STYLE. I then said that you like FIT. They are two different butt types and I labeled them as so! Reread my passage again.
if i reread correctly that your getting at there are such girls with fit athletic bodys and their butts ARE fit and toned but they're still BIG. along with the small toned butts? bc I've seen fit and thin girls with a TONED butt without the fattyness look and feel to it, But STILL THEY'RE TOO BIG
I'm glad there's at Least one guy with this opinion, I've always been insecure about being slim and thought nobody liked small. Butts lol
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What? No way why would think like that? Besides the physical figure of a slim girl with a small but lets me know that they're interested in staying healthy and I like my women healthy. Someone brought up a good point that it seems to be today that Society is making big butts and thick girls a nice way of covering up obesity. And I personally hate that.
I think it's a big thing to glorify big butts and thick women in the US, because were one of the fattest countries in the world. In many Asian countries though, and a lot of countries around the world , being slim is ideal and a good thing , especially in the countries considered more "healthy" and with a smaller obesity rate. I dont know , just 10 years ago it was in style to be skinny, it changes
Yeah bc people became extremely lazy and dont care and thats disgusting and they live shorter lives along with the increase risk of heart, diabetes, and artery promblems. I LOVE to becable to jump all around and move fast and swiftly and fit into small spaces when i want or need to without being exhausted no offense but this country has gotten waayyy out of hand with lazyness
I don't know I don't think guys necessarily like girls with big butts I think they like girls with nice butts or appealing ones to them. It's sort of like ladies and faces most ladies have nice faces but they also wear makeup as an enhancer to their face. So in most cases women generally have decent butts but it's also how they wear certain pants or skirts or dresses and whatnot to enhance the look of it. There are exceptional cases in which other women may have larger posteriors and they have something else that accentuates their posterior
People nowadays are attracted to big things, so maybe that's the reason why guys like big butts, or maybe it just looks good to them, the same way that girl looks good to you. You are attracted to what looks pleasing to your eyes right? Some guys like big butts but definitely not 90% of them lol
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What do you mean "definitely not 90% of them lol" ?
In my opinion, It's impossible for 90% of the male population to like big butts, because there are a lot of guys out there that are not into big butts. I know that because I have a big butt and I feel like some men don't really go crazy over my butt, which is really depressing š
It's just the way men's brains are wired. A large butt shows a healthy woman and a healthy woman is what men look for in a mate. A healthy woman means they can have healthy reproduction.
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Well to me a healthy woman is Slim and fit not possibly covering up obesity by calling yourself thick and having a large butt to me does not seem healthy.
My girlfriend has a very nice butt and it's bigger and rounder than most girls her size but is definitely not fat. She also happens to be a personal trainer and works hard at it and i would put her butt up against any of those girls butts that your referring to and i guarantee you that she'll look better than any of those flat girls. Small flat butts are not sexy.
Because some people disagree with you? I love my big arse, I think it looks great and I don't think your opinion matters to me or to anyone else who likes it.
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Personally I'm a girl, but if I were a guy and actually liked girls I think I would like ass because it looks great when having sex.. it bounces and it's quiet sexy!!
I don't know maybe because it feels nice like cushion
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om a virgin and even after i know that little part for more cushion for the pushin won't change my mind. bc ill be lookin at it all the time if its my type.
hmm that true personally I agree with your taste I'm not into big butts it looks so unattractive but I assumed men might like it cuz of the feel you know. it's kinda like when you hug a fat person they feel so good.( or maybe it's just me š).
yeah thats not me. i dont like feel of big butts its gross its like im just grabbing a lump of sheer fat. but small fit athletic butts like the one above in the picture those now THOSE FEEL AMAZING LOL. By feel i mean touch by hand again im a virgin
but you know as long as they dont over do the squats to where it becomes a BIG but fit butt so much so when they stand up straight it sticks out naturally A LOT that is just still in my mind too much. SMALL CHEEKS that are not flat i guess is the best way to describe my taste.
I'm pretty sure butts like you described are fake lol I've seen those so called Instagram "fitness" models and it's totally fake. I think when the butt look too muscular then it ain't cute no more
Well, most males do not. That not what relationship is base on. Inappropriate behavior.
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Okay I never said this is what I would focus on in a relationship but to start dating a girl they have to catch my eye as in catch my attention these are just my personal preferences to a girl's body then I will talk to her and find out her personality and see if she is here I hope she is. Because I'm sorry but I'm not going to go up to a random girl that I do not find attractive and anyway and does not catch my attention and just start dating her I don't think anybody works like that.
now wait FIT chicks with a SMALL ASS LIKE IN THE PICTURE? or do you still like them to have a big booty from squats and be fit? bc i sure as hell dont.
No, I like your picture. I see the allure in someone with large tits and wild curves. I get that it is feminine, and some guys prefer it, but not the kind of feminine I find attractive. The larger women seem more aggressively feminine, in a purely physical/appearance way.
yeah she's good too dont get me wrong. but I don't know what it is about that thigh gap but holy god that shits sexy as all hell get out lol. but srsly major turn on from a small butt petite body with thigh gaps tho.
You can have ass and not be fat as hell though lol
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Well if you read my statement underneath the question I talked about that and I still don't care for it to me it's too much I don't care what guys say about more cushion for the pushin because I think it's extremely unattractive. Now when I say a small butt I don't mean bony and that or anorexic but I have some friends who have amazing asses and they are Slim and they have small but not large or tiny butts.
Not really I see them everywhere I go I don't think you fully understand the size of ass I'm talking about the best way I can describe it is the petite Slim FIT not muscular but with a semi bubble like ass but the butt cheeks are not full bubble blown as the picture I showed above. I have a blonde friend like this and she is a goddess to me.
There's actually an article about this subject in psychology today
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Fit chicks are the best
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now wait FIT chicks with a SMALL ASS LIKE IN THE PICTURE? or do you still like them to have a big booty from squats and be fit? bc i sure as hell dont.
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