Why do men care about butts so much. I have no butt and it just pisses me off how much guys care?

[Anonymous]

Why do me like asses so much, I can’t even understand it because I don’t get what’s appealing about it, literally a ball of fat!

Before you say do squats, it’s been proven by experts squats don’t do shit but maybe build your thighs and give you an extra cm of a butt! What you really have to do is lift weights for years and years to see change which guys think is a turn off on a girl. On top of that that’s means no change for years!

Im not even picky about my men I’ve liked and dating guys shorter than me, non muscular men, so why are guys so crazy dicks about a big butts?

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Sorry about the spelling errors, wrote this really quickly in a frustrated mood.

[DaveJord]

So, I am and ass guy... and that does not mean they have to have big ass... but just a defined and shapely ass. A good ass can be large or small... just like breasts. But yeah, in general a flat ass is not as sexy.

When you press up against a good as you would rather feel little cushion vs. boney. Love squeezing a women's ass cheeks around my junk and rubbing it around. Or seeing a little jiggle when you are hitting against it.

You are right about the squats, and yes eventually over time you might build up enough muscle to achieve a larger ass or more shapely ass... but that's not the same as truly feminine looking ass. Women with muscle bound ass, look to masculine to me.

Big butts can be just as unattractive if not more so than no ass at all.

In the end its about body symmetry. Is your ass in portions with rest of your body. Because it is a commonly known fact that symmetry rarely happens naturally in nature, so when you find it within a human face or figure you are naturally attracted to it... because symmetry is considered as a sign of having good genetics.

Other than that people just like what they like, and that's all there is to it. You can understand that.

[DoctorSex]

From an evolutionary standpoint I once read that strength in the glutes indicate a more capable mate for carrying children over long distances, and often on shot notice due to predators... which is what our ancestors had to do. Strong legs and glutes are symbolic of a woman who has a better chance at protecting the survival of our genes through her most vulnerable state.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Asker]

No one actually goes by that bs were evolved people. Men are attracted women end of story other wise no one would have small butts because small butted women wouldn’t be chosen to procreate this. Thus gene would go extinct. Not to mention bug buts just became a fad in the past 15 years in the 90s- early tops a woman with a big butt was seen as fat.

[DoctorSex]

Clearly you're frustrated about your pancake backside. Try squats

[Asker]

Fuck you cunt

[Nomina]

Some like big butts and they cannot lie...
Others don't. Maybe focus on those.

[FilmGuy93]

Big butts have nice movement. It's pleasant to look at. We don't really care that much about the size of your butt though. Just be confident with what you've got, and men will notice.

[FunkyMonkee]

If you're talking about girls with fat asses, count ME out!! I'd prefer a girl with a normal ass!! Besides, asses are only nice to look at once in a while. Kinda like having a blacklight: it's a lot of fun every so often but, nothing you want to keep on ALL THE TIME.

[Berethor]

White men tend to prefer boobs, I don't see what so special about butts as well.

[PinkRose24]

Butts make you look balanced. If you have big boobs but a flat butt you look unbalanced. If you have small boobs and a medium/big butt you looks balanced.

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 sounds need to go around proving to random men on the internet that her fat ass makes up for her nonexistent tits.

[PinkRose24]

I never said I didn't have boobs. All I'm saying is what's important is the butt because you can have small/medium/ big and if you have a medium or big butt you'll look balanced.

[Alchemizt]

They just look nice and attractive. It also has something to do with evolutionary psychology but I will not go that far in this answer. Most of us actually don't care about the size of the butt, we are more attracted to the hourglass shape.

[Guy13]

Shape and Design.
It is really about the Waist. Small waist is the key 🔑 to everything

[Asker]

Ok I have a small waist and some hips and a fairly medium/ small large chest so I still have a hourglass figure. Thank you for your input

[Guy13]

You're perfect then... don't buy in to the Social Media garbage !!

[PinkRose24]

If you have a flat butt, you don't have an hourglass figure. An hourglass figure is balanced.
Butts make you look balanced. If you have big boobs but a flat butt you look unbalanced. If you have small boobs and a medium/big butt you looks balanced.

[PinkRose24]

The butt is the base. The heavy stuff goes on bottom. The lighter stuff goes on top.

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 you are so incredibly batshit to go around commenting on every single reply just because your but hurt not every wants your fat ass. Just stfu and leave crazy bitch

[PinkRose24]

I weigh 115 pounds. I'm not fat 🤣🤣🤣

[HighValue]

I prefer a cute face over all else, but my favorite build is a skinny petite girl with skinny arms that is pathetically weak and wimpy.

[Anonymous]

You don't understand why men find the female ass so attractive because... wait for it... you're not a man.

[Asker]

All I’m saying is why is it that big of a deal breaker when women don’t even lose their shit over anything that much. What’s with the whacked out obsession?

[Asker]

15-16 years ago if you had a big ass you were considered fat!

[Opinion Owner]

You think most guys want a big ass? You're wrong. We just want a female ass to look at, squeeze, kiss and fuck.

[Wiredone]

I like a woman's body to be in proportion. I'm more interested in her eyes , her smile and personality

[Brando10222]

I don't care about voobs and butt. But yeah, character of the person matters the most to me.

[Asker]

Good to know people still care about personality haha

[Brando10222]

Yeah! But not gonna lie its hard to find that type of person haha

Boobs*

[AmeerX]

I don't have that fetish 😂. I just want a beautiful face and average to slim side body

[LimitedBenefits101]

Butt became very popular in the last 6-10 year or so

Its because of all these music videos.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Because having a nice butt gives women a nice body shape that makes her physically appealing.

[Asker]

Being 6ft plus with a six pack also makes men more appealing

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Correct.

[PinkRose24]

She thought she got you 🤣

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 and you think it makes sense to comment on every goddamn reply tf why are you so obsessed holy shit

[PinkRose24]

It pisses you off that I comment on some posts? Wow you need anger management.

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 that you keep commenting on my damn question knowing full well your just t trying to piss me off. I don’t get why your arguing with men who disagree and I don’t get why you need to keep commneting

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 You must be mentally ill so I’ll stop responding since clearly you can’t

[PinkRose24]

You're mentally ill for crying over having a flat butt!

[PinkRose24]

How about you focus on your personality so a guy can like you ✌️

[sheikalana]

It's a beautiful curve in a woman's body.

[LiamJHayden]

Media. I personally don't care.

[Farmerboy2]

You have a butt. Everyone does.

[Anonymous]

Can't relate

[Asker]

I love when bitches like you say shit at me knowing you only have your flabby ass to make up for your ogre ass face.

[Opinion Owner]

How did I talk shit? All I said was I can't relate. You sound very insecure.
I have a beautiful face by the way

[Asker]

Who tf says can’t relate on a damn post repressing they feel negatively about their body. You are definitely the insecure one trying to one up yourself to other women.

[Asker]

no pretty person acts like that

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just commented I can't relate because I can't. Not my fault you're insecure.

[Asker]

I hope anytime you express being upset about anything someone immediately tells you for happy they and that you have a problem for being upset. You are a dick

[Opinion Owner]

"someone immediately tells you for happy they"
What? 🤣😂

[Opinion Owner]

I never said you can't be upset for having a flat butt. When did I say that? All I said was can't relate.