Should I get my friends with benefits a gift?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been friends with benefits with this guy for about 7 months now & apart from the sexual part I’ll also consider him as a friend. He recently moved into a new house and he wants me to come see it. I was thinking of getting him wine and chocolate as a welcoming gift. Is that too much?

[DishLady]

Wine is pretty standard for any housewarming — casual enough to say “hey I was passing the store in the way over and picked this up for you.” Very bland generic gift if that’s your goal.


Chocolate isn’t particularly meaningful either, but awkward for this time of year.


If you actually are interested in getting something nice for him, think of what he likes — or perhaps a little adornment in his favorite color — for the house.

[DreamLife7]

You're embarrassing lol. He's basically dissed you and you're okay with that because you're insecure. A man making you you a friends with benefits means you aren't pretty enough, smart enough, and not good enough to be wife material and introduced to family 🤣

[Asker]

You’re so right, never really seen it like that. I’ll come back to this answer if I ever wanna do something stupid like that again. Thankss

[magiusX26]

i would stay in platonic level of gifting if any gifting, otherwise it means seeing a friends with benefits as more than just that (catching feelings) . with some, catching feelings can ruin it and make them more likely to end even that level of relationship.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Some may even say is that enough for a housewarming gift. Is that enough lol 😆 I mean don't chicks usually go overboard with flowers 🌹 🌺 cards, etc 💐 - maybe something as well like a dish rack or a practical item he may like or need new of? Not expebsive

[itsclearlynicholas]

Not expensive (typo) of course

[wiltingrosepetal]

Too much. I would recommend getting them a plastic pot plant - very simple and platonic

[Kelley1]

That or most any nominal gifts are fine unless you are giving it with the expectation that he reciprocate.

[Friendlybro79]

Nah that's the friend part shining in friends with benefits. If you're really unsure drink half the wine and chocolate before giving it to him lol. Jk

[straightmax12]

If you want to, but the gift that you want to give to your friend should be a gift that maintains your friendship and not make it seem a romantic gift you'd give to a lover.

[DrPepper12]

No!!! It's a house warming gift. Just keep it practical nor romantic. Wine yes. Chocolates no.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sounds like you're already giving him plenty of gifts. Lol.

[moneymagnet24]

Give him blowjob on his new house will be great gift... lol.

[spartan55]

MHO..

[dragoblack]

Nope, it's a good gift considering your friendship agreement.

[MrCharlie13]

Ask yourself this. Would you do that for a normal friend? If so, go ahead.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you want him to go ass-to-mouth on you. That's a great gift!

[spartan55]

Lingerie would be better

[DishLady]

😂 Probably true.

[HawkPerception]

"Come and see the house, eh?" 😏

[itsclearlynicholas]

"mirrors in the bedroom aye?" 🪞 What intriguing wardrobes 😆

[emma55]

Sounds good, even a nice candle would be nice

[236color]

No, seems like a nice gesture

[Anonymous]

Lucky guy, wine amd sex

[Opinion Owner]

And*

[Anonymous]

Wine and pussy will do.

[Summeroflove]

My gosh…

[sheikalana]

Nope.

[butterly248]

Sounds good

[impalabill77]

I would