Does my crush like me? I'm confused…?

[Anonymous]

So l have a crush on guy and we do have eye contact during class, he also looks in my direction if something funny or stupid happens during class but we never/rarely talk. In the break, I'm also with him and his friend group, but for some reason we don't talk, I can talk to the others guys without any problem and he talks to the other girls without any problem but we just can't talk to each other. We just talk over messengers (his message have started getting longer and he started to reply faster recently) but recently he started saying „bye, see you!" after classes and he asked why I was alone during the break once and one time he looked like he wanted to approach me after class but his friends kinda dragged him away. After I asked him if he wants to meet up with me (and optional: a friend of ours) he said „Yeah that would be great" and a few days later I asked him what we could do, he suggested going to the cinema and said „We’re absolutely going to hang out“ I'm confused now. Should I do anything? Or maybe I'm interpreting too much into this?

[SueShe]

Well, he is the shy kind of boy just like you are the shy kind of girl. You talk together but you don't really communicate.

He obviously likes you but he does not want to let the others in the group know that he likes you and that is also why he keeps a certain distance, perhaps because he is afraid of the others' reactions if they find out.

Perhaps that you should take the initiative and tell him that you have a crush on him. If you don't do anything about it and he does not, you might miss a wonderful connection. Good luck.

[Asker]

That’s what I thought too, it’s like „If I talk to him the others will notice I like him so I rather not talk to him“ maybe he thinks the same? I also heard one of his friends say something about him and me when we walked next to each other haha

[trinket13]

it sounds like he def likes you girl! just give it time it seems like he's shy but slowly it seems y'all are making progress!

[nevooo]

You’re gonna have to do something to show him you like him, in high school I had the same situations a few times, and nothing ever came of any of them, even though looking back I can tell a few girls probably liked me, one definitely did cause she’d always ask me for a hug, but I didn’t like her so

[236color]

Well, at your age who knows. The only way to know is to ask. Both of you are probably too shy for this. You'll grow and become more confident as time goes on. Just a hint, even decades from now, guys don't get hints, if you want to know what he thinks, you have to ask out loud.

[RossyBoi]

Maybe he just wants to be friends? Don't date someone in your class as it will become extremely awkward when you break up.

[Asker]

We‘re done with school in three months anyway so🤷🏼‍♀️

[RossyBoi]

It's still extremely risky. I'd advise just friendship nothing more.

[Lessthanaveragr]

Must likely no, they just want u hurt your feelings

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know ask but you’re too young to date anyway and you don’t want to get pregnant

[Anonymous]

There is obviously some kind of barrier between you two.

[WhitneySnow]

I think he likes you and is too shy to say much