Guys, I told my boyfriend (never seen him naked) that its ok if he isn't big as i'd like him inside me regardless, he can't forget it, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

PLEASE READ AND HELP ME (LMAO) We live in different countries and chat via social media. Is what I said really that bad? I never said he was small, I just said id want him anyway. I've never even seen him naked. I understand that size is a HIGHLY sensitive issue for men and frankly I can't believe that I could be so dumb as to even go anywhere near that conversation. I know better than that. We were having a steamy conversation late at night, i was so tired I wasn't thinking clearly about what I was saying. I regret it soo much because he's told me that he can't get aroused to me the same way he used to before. he's said 'I just can't feel anything for you for long now.' He says he's not mad at me but that when he thinks of me in a sexual way the 'feelings and emotions come back'. He says he knows its irrational but he can't help it, he can't forget about it. I only said what i said because the last time we talked he referred to himself as 'pretty big' but when I asked him again (in a sexy way.. to get the conversation flowing) he said 'i think youd like it' and so to me, in the late hours of the night under tire, i construed that as a statement which exhibited low self confidence and I was only trying to increase it with that comment. At first he was mad at me but when I explained why i said it and how i construed his 'i think you'd like it comment' he understood. I recognise how dumb I've been so please, no harsh comments, just advice please. Its been 2 days since it happened but he's brought it up several times since then, telling me he can't forget. Only a little while ago did he stop the conversation and say that he didn't feel like talking because of it. He said that it'll get better, told me not to worry and that there's nothing he or I can do to make it better. I really love this guy and I don't want to screw this up. I realise its only been 2 days but is there something I can do/say in the mean time to fix it?

[SomeOtherRandomGuy]

I'd say when you see it, lie and act like it's one of the bigger ones you've seen... But given his response, it sounds like he has as REALLY tiny penis, and it might be obvious you're lying. I mean, hell, I'm no donkey, but even I don't get that upset. Your best bet might be to try to forget about it and pretend like that conversation never happened. And when you do see it, just be Prepared to be underwhelmed and act enthusiastic. lol

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. I can't pretend like it never happened because he brings it up periodically but ill try to make it better somehow. :)

[kiler1000]

don't lie. he's most likely gonna see right on true it.

[zagor]

Mine is big enough to make ME happy; if she wants more she can find another guy. Or buy an appliance.

[Dєѕιвσу]

That's why i prefer to remain virgin for now. World is simply terrible lol
Well he won't feel anything for you right now (sexually) after knowing your expectations.
It's matter of self respect.

[Asker]

What expectations? I told him id be with him regardless and I intend to stay a virgin till marriage too. Its just that we love each other a lot and things can get steamy. Don't assume things.

[Mickdodge]

Only time and reassurance will fix this. Be patient and understanding. He will get over it