I'm bigger than my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I weigh much more than my boyfriend and I feel extremely self conscious about it. Like I weigh 125 and he LOOKS like he weighs 100 pounds. I mean he likes me a lot and a lot of that weight is from my butt, but he always tells me how he loves my butt. So he always seems like he doesn't care about it, but I don't know does he? Should I worry about this?

You should be worrying and lose some weight.

Don't worry, he likes you for you.

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by the way I think this'll make me seem fatter because were both 13 years old.

[sammy_31]

Okay so here is an okay example of fat vs muscle

Fat weighs more so even if 2 people weigh the same what matter is body fat.
Look at these 2 women both weight 60kg about 132 lbs

He looks lighter because he is leaner.

I mean weight doesn't seem to be like an issue here. It's more of you just being self conscious and maybe have a low self esteem. If YOU don't like your body for whatever reason try to find a solution rather than spend so much time thinking about the problem. If it isn't that big of a problem then don't worry about it. I'm sure he likes you for you. If he has an issue he should tell you rather than have you guessing and maybe ask him but not in a negative or bad way. Either way do things for you when it's about your body.

[Slavanna]

You're both 13. You're at a later puberty stage than he is. You're becoming a woman, little girl, and that means more fat in some areas. Boys can still be twigs at this stage because they don't produce enough testosterone to easily gain muscle. He's probably not much taller than you if at all, anyway, basing on your age.

Also, saying that you must be skinny at 125 is bullshit. That depends on your height. If you're 5'7", then you're pretty darn slender. If you're 5' on the other hand... that'd make you the slightest bit chubby. Also, the frame really does matter. If you have a larger frame, you carry your weight much better and it's less visible. If you have a small frame, fat is always gonna show more.

[Themoonlitsky]

He wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you. I look chubbier than my boyfriend, and he tells me he loves it all the time. Don't worry about it :-)

[ncannon18]

Wow. It appears that your guy really loves you for who you really are & don't care that you sre big, because he really does care for you no matter what. In my shoes I would mostly want to date big females as well. Because not only that they do have loads of beauty in the inside but they also do have a lot of booty in the outside which is really a turn on point for me. Big booties on big average women really turns me on. It almost makes me wish to give a big booty woman a booty massage.

[Klaatu51]

why should you worry? some guys don't mind about being smaller than their gfs

i'm one of them as welll... i love it when a girl is bigger than me!

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[Asker]

Okay thanks.

[Tokana]

Despite the fact that he's smaller, he has more testosterone and has the ability to gain muscle mass a lot faster in the future. A little known fact about me is that when I weighed 125lbs I had a gf that weighed 225lbs. lol. She use to give me piggyback rides.

[Illusive_Man]

Being small framed sucks ass.
6ft ish at 163lbs , go to the gym , sees people my height built like bears weighting in at least 250 , 270 lbs , literally BUCKLING the chin up bar when they crack out some chin ups...

Feels like such a lightweight lol

[Tokana]

@Illusive_Man

most people in my gym look like this:
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I see people watchin me workout and I do lift decent weight compared to the average gym goer. You're good bruh, you're only comparing yourself to the biggest guy in the gym.

[Illusive_Man]

Well we gotta aim for the unattainable to make them attainable ain't it?

[Tokana]

@Illusive_Man

of course, but being in a constant state of inferiority will do nothing for you

[Illusive_Man]

Workouts of bitterness and hatred is the best workout.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I got a ton of diversity of body sizes in my gym.

[Frost_Byt3]

I wouldn't worry if i were you because he is with you in the first place. But it couldn't hurt to do some squats and lose some of that weight, you will probably feel better and less insecure. But if your gonna do it, do it for yourself, not him.

[Anonymous]

Are you serious? Honey, we have a lot more fat than guys, they weight more than us because they are bigger and have more muscle. 13 year old boys though, are nothing but bones and hormones, of course he doesn't weight anything. You are perfectly normal, and almost all the boys ( the ones that aren't like 5'3) will grow to weight way more than you do now.

[Redstang88]

You dont need to lose weight, he should gain some. 125lbs is small, I can't imagine how tiny you're boyfriend is.
You have no reason to be self conscious.

[Asker]

Thanks, and yes he is very skinny looking.

[dricky2011]

just curious but why do you girls think that us guys will date girls that we don't like, if he didn't like you he wouldn't be with you

[Anonymous]

He likes you already. Don't worry. My husband is 165 pounds and I am 235 pounds. He likes big women. There's nothing wrong with it. If a guy criticizes you over anything like your weight, dump him. If he loves you than he loves everything about you.

[Shantishanti]

First of all, you have to know if you are okay with your body. If you are not, maybe you can do some exercices and get your butt in shape;)

[eugwara]

I wouldn't mind at all, but that would be hard for me to find. I'm 5'8", 180 and growing

[CootiesInfection]

i wouldn't care as long as the weight was in your butt and tits

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I wouldn't worry cause some guys don't mind their gf weighing more than him

[Katy16]

I doubt he weighs so little and you aren't fat to begin with

[Anonymous]

only reason you should ever worry about weight is health issues otherwise he likes you = he likes you no buts full stop

[swimmersam]

125 is small, you're not fat at all

[CommieDearest]

Don't obsess over it.

[Anonymous]

Your dick is bigger than his?

[Asker]

Omg! I knew this wouldhhappen, I was actually gona put this in the description that that's not what I meant, 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I seem to have misunderstood.

[Redlily78]

You have no right talking like that to a young girl. You should be flagged.

[Opinion Owner]

Then... flag me?

[TripleAce]

Oh calm down redlily78 she's on gag meaning she's exposed to this stuff all the time. It comes with the territory. If she's so young there should be parental control on her Internet for this site

Plus she's telling us how her bf loves her big butt. I don't thnk she's so innocent

[TripleAce]

@Redlily78

[Redlily78]

My mistake tripleace! I'm sure you wouldn't like it if some old guy talked to your young daughter like that. Besides no one asked for your opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

No one asked you for either of your motherfucking opinions.

[Anonymous]

I'd never date a girl heavier than me.

[ShaeNielson]

Good job on making a 13 year old girl think she is fat ;)

[PT1911]

you're 13, relax :)