Girls, how would you feel if you were stronger than your boyfriend or husband?

[TomGarand]

Before I go further, I know that a lot of women want to be with a bigger/stronger man so they can feel feminine and safe.

Part of the reason is because of my personal tastes in women, and my experience. I'm not a strong man at all; I got no muscle on me.

As I've said in some of my questions, my BFF (Who I'll be calling "Coyote") has a younger sister I nickname "Wolf", because she calls me "Puppy", and she's taller than me. Coyote is taller than me, but still shorter than Wolf. Anyway, Wolf is stronger than both me and her big brother, and she playfully asked him if he was jealous of being weaker than her. The thing with her is, she's dominant, in all of her personal relationships. She's an alpha female, and she likes it.

I even told her (through Coyote) that I want to get lighter and weaker than her and she smiled. The fact that she's stronger and taller than me boosts her ego.

The truth is, I like that I boost Wolf's ego. I make her feel like the Amazons from Greek mythology. Tall, strong, and beautiful. I love that I do that for her.

I actually like it when a woman is physically stronger than me because I find it dominant, and dominance in women is really hot to me. The problem is, most women are not like Wolf. I'm short at 5'6/167 cm, and a lot of women like strong men.

If I wasn't trying to date Wolf, I'd like to date a woman stronger than me who can ideally take the lead. The last thing I'd want is for her to feel insecure about me being weaker (and probably taller). I'd want to make her to feel like an Amazon or a warrior woman, like I do to Wolf.

Xena Warrior Princess and Wonder Woman.

I'd want to boost her ego by making her feel good about her muscle and athleticism--and her height, if she's also tall.

So ladies, how would you feel about being stronger than your boyfriend or husband? Would you feel insecure and masculine, or would you feel like Xena's badass great-great-great-granddaughter?

[dustybiker]

If they are already your boyfriend or husband, wouldn’t that answer the question?

You should check out Taekwondo. Lots of strong woman in those studios. Maybe they can teach you a thing or to too, you might like it. Get buff yourself. At least get fit and learn how to handle yourself. That’s never a bad thing.

[TomGarand]

So you personally would not feel insecure about it?

And I know it's not a bad thing. But I'd prefer to be the weaker one, because again, I'd like to date someone who can take the lead. I want someone to submit to.

[dustybiker]

If I like someone and they like me what is there to be insecure about? That is what I meant about already being in a relationship boyfriend/or married. Go forth and be happy.

[JosyJosy]

I would be totally okay with that