Girls, how would you feel if you learned you could beat up your boyfriend (if you wanted to)?

[Anonymous]

I'm an avg size guy, decent shape but not super fit. My girlfriend is the same, or so I thought.
We were bored tonight and ended up play wrestling for fun on a dare. I wasn't really serious because
I thought she'd be no challenge but I quickly discovered how wrong I was! We moved furniture out of the way and I tried my best but she was barely breaking a sweat and still easily beat me. It was just for fun and we obviously were not trying to hurt each other but there were times where I felt scared, like just an automatic, uncontrollable reaction that I should get away or I could be hurt, even though I was never in danger. I just got a sense that, if she wanted to, she could kick my ass without question!
It feels strange, like if something happened to us as a couple, she'd be better at defending us than I would. The weird thing is she looks fairly petite and harmless, you'd never tell by looking at her.
Wonder if any other girls are in a relationship where you are stronger or tougher than your boyfriend and how you feel about it?

[Mydnite]

I've been that girl before and absolutely love it! The thing you have to realize is that is probably upsetting you is that it's the opposite of what society tells you should be the norm, if you can get over that bullshit, then you will be fine, maybe you will even enjoy it if you don't have too much of an overblown male ego. Many guys actually find it very hot to be with a girl that is stronger than them and is the dominant one in the relationship and can protect them if necessary. I thrive in that role.

Personally, she sounds like a keeper to me. If you don't want her, tell her I say hi ;P

[electromagnetic]

My partner and I are pretty athletic. I took MMA for a few years and he's been doing Muay Thai since Ever. I'm pretty sure if he wanted to, he could kick my ass. But If I ever felt like I could beat him, yay me.

[selmo93]

Yes I am, he's like a skeleton man and have picked him up and carried him a few times. I'm happy with it. I mean at least there's no threat there