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My stepdad who is strongly homophobic and mildly racist/classist, and my mom who is extremely ableist, problematic and insensitive. I am starting to hate my relatives more than ever, and both the Trump and now Biden presidencies have brought in strong divisiveness both in political and nonpolitical cases. People have started to become ruder, meaner, and more crass than ever. It really hurts me that people are like this. It has rarely ever been like this before the Trump era. I really hate people, especially insensitive people.

Just because your 2000-year-old Hebrew-written book barely says "respect your parents," it probably has been translated out of context. As with all the homophobic, transphobic, anti-Semitic, racist and sexist takes from the so-called "verses" the idiots and douchebags use. MANY of my relatives are like this, and MANY politicians I know are like this. I cannot stand Democrats, Republicans, or even most "independents" these days; I've turned myself back from these cults and their grifterism/asshole-ry.

My brother who is ten years old literally cannot get HIMSELF out of the bathroom. That's why he always calls his dad to try and get him out. But for the second time, he told him to ask our mom since he (my stepdad) was busy, and when he (my halfbrother) did that, Mom got really pissed off and said "don't even ask me, you're an adult, you're 10, go figure it out." I really hate it when people use others' ages as a result and solving of their problems, and sometimes my stepdad brings up the fact that I'm 21 when I am upset or angry.

My parents claim to be "centrist," but they're actually big business capitalist and far-right conservative frauds (by action, not just words) who like to make a mockery of people who aren't even the sense like them. Especially my stepdad. I unofficially left the Trump club a few months ago after seeing how cruel his supporters were, so I am a former Trump supporter (I was a Trumpie since the later end of high school).

My girlfriend Jocelyn does favours for me even though I tell her not to. The reason I tell her not to is because I feel she does these things for the wrong reason. For example, Jocelyn cooks for even after I’ve told her multiple times not to. She says she does it because she wants me to keep my muscular physic. And that If I stopped working out and got fat she’d leave me.

Jocelyn also a bunch of male friends and it makes me uncomfortable. I know these guys wanna sex with her, she even admitted it. I told her numerous times how I feel. She told me that she’s every guy’s fantasy and I’m just insecure. After having numerous fights over the male friends Jocelyn finally said to me “I’ll stop hanging out with guys, since you’re so jealous”.

For the last 3 weeks things were good. She was telling to come over almost every day, constantly telling me she’s happy, how I’m the one etc. Then 2 days ago everything fell apart. She asked me to walk across the street and buy her food and I accidentally bought her the wrong thing.

She was very angry, and I apologized and told her I’m going back to get the right order. She told me she was too mad to eat and not to bother. Then she started complaining she’s been unhappy with the relationship and starts saying telling me I’m lazy and don’t care about her. I asked her why she’d say such a thing.

Jocelyn starts complaining that I don’t know what she wants, and when she wants it. That I don’t pay attention to her needs. And that she shouldn’t have to ask me to do things for her, I should just know. With that being said haven’t spoken to her in 2 days.

I do it more often now because it's an hour long drive to get to my uncle's bayhouse and when I'm there, i don't feel like I belong there as people will say hi and ask where I am if I'm not there, but once I arrive, I never feel like I play any role in the party, if you want to call it that.

I also have an angry resting face so I'm constantly trying to keep myself from looking that way but it never plays out right and I end up making myself look confused instead of angry, even though I'm not mad. I used to hug people bye but now I just slip out when nobody is looking and the fact that I'm able to do that kinda proves that my sense of being nothing more than an "extra" is true.

Today I was invited to a family meetup but I said no and decided to stay home instead because I didn't want to drive an hour just so I can sit and feel uncomfortable and unwelcome. It also doesn't help that I don't drink at all because I'm 100% immune to the effects of alcohol and being around people who are drunk is even less enjoyable for me, so I decided that I wasn't going to go today. Have you ever said no to a family meetup?