I don't think a relationship should be started out with a lie, but I see this as getting the foot in the door. I personally would never have a problem being truthful because I like to meet girls in person anyways, but I feel like online girls set their filters, and I also believe that girls tend to be unaware of what a guy's actual height is even when seeing him in person. For shyer guys who find it hard to meet in person, online would be a good option, but if you're a short guy and truthful about it, I think you're limiting yourself. I'm not saying to say 6ft if you're 5'5 but I mean like saying 5'9 if you're 5'8, which is what a lot of professional athletes even do. She won't even be able to tell most of the time. I do think it's good to be honest about it rather quickly, and she won't make a fuss if she likes you. If she gets angry and calls you a liar, then oh well, tough luck, but most of the time, that won't happen. Am I right, ladies?
In person, I've had many girls tell me that I look taller. Girls tell me that they wouldn't date a guy a certain height, and I tell them how tall I am, and they change their minds. It's actually kinda hilarious.
Do you think that a girl who usually only dates 5'9 or taller is more likely to make an exception for a 9/10 online profile for a 5'8 guy or a 8/10 profile for a 5'9 guy?
Personally, I truly believe redeeming qualities can make up for height, but most girls will most likely not see these redeeming qualities unless he hits the height cutoff, and a lot of times, it's just the extra inch.
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