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So here is my concern, when we promote transgender or make acceptation for them are doing so with the belief that's it in their best interest or are we causing them more harm by enabling/ignoring a greater mental health issue?

John Hopkins Medicine defines Body Dysmorphic Disorder as;

Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental health problem. If you have BDD, you may be so upset about the appearance of your body that it gets in the way of your ability to live normally. Many of us have what we think are flaws in our appearance. But if you have BDD, your reaction to this “flaw” may become overwhelming.

www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/body-dysmorphic-disorder

No where in the John Hopkins article does it recommend or even mention sex transition as a viable treatment option. Actually it cites having unnecessary surgeries as a symptom of the disorder and not a treatment or a cure. It talks more about treating the mental disorder with assistance of mental health profession to develop healthy was of living and coping with the disorder.

Now I am not shaming or bashing on Transgenders, but I do not believe in promoting transitional surge as a good treatment option and I fear it is potentially more harmful, because it causes all new problems for individuals who are already suffering from a mental illness.

These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women
. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind, this could be worth a read:

1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Big earrings
5. Provocative clothing
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content)
7. Questionable.. questions (e. g. "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored
11. S. I. G. N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e. g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" )
14. Materialistic
15. Their actions don't follow their words
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things
20. Habit of lying as it could escalate over time
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'
23. Shit Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.”
24. Ultimatums
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure (s).*The issue is many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships.
27. They're often passive aggressive