GIRL HAS DADDY ISSUES - WHAT SHALL I DO?

[JamesAbworth]

I’ve had 3 dates with a girl. We almost had sex first date - so so close. Anyway she told me daddy issues.

I thought girls with daddy issues are clingy and always want your attention? She’s not clingy with me at all even though we decided to be exclusive. We haven’t had sex yet. What can I do to make her more clingy? I don’t get why guys hate girls who are clingy. I would love a girl to always give me attention and focus on me.

Basically I am asking what can I do to exploit her daddy issue traits?

[Harleigh90]

Fuck me! Is this the same girl from your previous question?

In what context did she say she has daddy issue's? Was this a sex conversation discussing kinks?

If this a kink she has, you need to understand it and know what it actually is, and also learn her limits on it.

You can't make her clingy, plus that wouldn't be healthy if you did manage a relationship her.

[JamesAbworth]

She basically told me she has daddy issues and likes older men. And she likes to be taken care of on all fronts. I don’t think it’s a sexual kink. I read online girls with daddy issues are very clingy but I’m not getting that from her. I just want more attention from her. She takes hours to respond to my messages and I think she’s doing that deliberately

[Harleigh90]

Liking older men is a preference, calling you daddy is a kink. Usually used in role play or to tease, have you 'take control' of how that plays out. Not necessarily to be clingy, independent girls can have daddy issues too. You gripping her attention is only going to come from trust and respect, you listening to what gets that kink and maybe other going. A few girls with daddy issues also need a connection emotionally. Listen to her body when kissing etc Getting to know her, sometimes kinks have a reason behind them, you know the reason and respect it, that will gain her 'need' for you.

[JamesAbworth]

She did tell me she likes bdsm but passionate sex as well. And she likes handcuffs, being spanked and chocked lightly. We obviously haven’t had sex yet but spoken about it a lot and our sex stories. It’s just hard to move this to the next stage with her she’s holding back and I don’t know why

[Harleigh90]

Right, that's fine. But you can't dive straight into bdsm with very little knowledge of it, and also understanding her. These sex stories, she's can't feel them. Pull back from 'we haven't had sex' and start thinking more from inside of you. Used her replies as a path to the next. Relax your mind of rushing as focus on forplay, anticipation, tease. Maybe don't just focus around sex, have a conversation that blends from day to day work/hobbies then to little darker side.

Most importantly, don't rush into kinks, things like breathplay need practice and a lot of commutation.

[JamesAbworth]

Thank you! At the moment we text everyday like how’s your day going etc! Any tips on how I can take it more to the dark side as you suggested or leave that to face to face conversations?

[Harleigh90]

By listening to her, she knows her kinks you just enhance them for her. Your focus right now is building an emotional connection, this is harder to to on text, in person her body language is everything you need to be reading it, she wants to feel she's safe in your company. Talk and listen about past stories, reflect and possibly relate. If sex happens let it be vanilla. Talking about the darker side fine, but don't dive into it.

[ChrisMaster69]

Cool, you must be catch of the day.

way to go asking the internet on how to exploit someone you want a relationship with.

Stunning.

[expdude]

Why do you fee insecure that she’s not clingy? Maybe deal with your own mommy issues before considering her daddy issues. Just a thought.

[Anonymous]

dam dude you soo close once you fuck her she'll be stuck on you like glue

[Dojaphat456]

Just wait until after y'all had sex🤣😏

[JamesAbworth]

Have you been with a girlfriend before who had daddy issues? How was it?

[Dojaphat456]

No I haven't. I dont think I have daddy issues. But I get clingy after sex or I do crave his attention lol

[JamesAbworth]

Is there anything I can do to help move it to another level with her? We are having date 4 tomorrow. I like her a lot and want us to be clingy I don’t mind it

[Dojaphat456]

Just tell her that. Maybe itll make her feel more comfortable

[TDTD123]

Thats a bang and run!