Is it a deal breaker if a girl has daddy issues?

[Anonymous]

[jp612612]

You know, I don't have a huge number of women to reference in this case, but the one that comes most to mind is this girl Madison, a girl who worked for me as a part-time nanny. When she was 11, her father renounced his rights to her and her brother in exchange for immediate forgiveness of all of his back child support. She was in the court room when it happened and talked about how she was completely shocked when he made that choice. To this day, she hasn't spoken to him but she admits that she'll look at his Facebook page from time to time and wishes that she could message him to ask him if she could come over.

I'll say this -- Madison is an incredible girl. She not only does part-time nanny work, but works full-time as a CNA where she cares for the elderly at an assisted living facility and even has time to do spot work for a modeling agency. She's responsible, funny, caring (my girls love her), and I just see nothing wrong with this girl at all. Does she have daddy issues? No doubt -- we talk about it all the time. In fact, she has said that when she sees me with my girls, she gets a bit jealous but at the same time, she wrote this wonderful declaration in support of me during my divorce.

I mean, this is just one example and maybe Madison is an aberration, but I almost think that having a crap father made her stronger.

[Asker]

Wow that is really great to read... thank you for sharing sir

[PhilTee]

That's an interesting question, and quite a deep one I think. First, the daddy issues which can be massive in a girl's mind and then whether it's a deal-breaker... I'd say it depends how the daddy issues are expressing themselves - very openly and obviously as part of a huge emotional trust thing, or just wanting someone 20+ years older for support as a "daddy"?

[Asker]

Oh no no not the 20+ older for support... not sugar daddy things 🙊
Just the part of a huge emotional trust thing. Thank you

[PhilTee]

I've got some more info on this I could share probably best if you follow/PM me

[Asker]

Thank for the offer sir

[catnip33]

I'm not a guy but I don't think it would, no. If you're working through some psychological problems your partner should be respectful of that and if they can, help you work through them.

Some guys might be uncomfortable with you calling them "daddy" and all of that, and if they are, then you shouldn't do it. But having some issues is no problem, everyone has some kind of issue.

[Asker]

Thank you thank you for the opinion!
No I won't call that way just like that.

[Logorithim]

Some guys might be comfortable with it. It's a big world, and there's someone out there for everyone.

[Asker]

Okay... thank you sir

[Logorithim]

I'm reminded of something- a lot of people pick partners who remind them of a parent.

[theharlequin]

Depends on what sort of issues. If it's an open wound from her father figure that hasn't healed, it wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker, but she'd need to heal so that I could have a defined place in her life rather than just as a substitute for paternal validation.
If she *has* recovered and it's just a residual kink, no problem at all.

[Asker]

Okay, thank you sir 🙃

[madhatters4]

i guess it depends on the extent of the daddy issues. but it's certainly a red flag and then it's a matter of gauging how much those issues will impact a relationship

[Asker]

Thank you for the opinion sir

[Harri95]

As a man I didn’t have daddy issues but I suffered abuse as a teen so I really understand where girls are coming from. I’ve actually had quite a few relationship with girls who have had this or similar issues. It honestly makes no difference to me, I think it can actually make you closer in some respect. As a man could be the one that she turns too for help and support. As long as the guy is genuine , understanding and patient then I can’t see a problem with it whatsoever! Hope this helps!

[Asker]

Thank you a lot sir for great opinion

[AlwaysBelieving]

Nope, not for me. I'll also take into account to what extent her daddy issues are.

We all (well most of us anyway) have issues with our parents in one form or another. Daddy issues is just an easy "catch" that people use that are too lazy to figure out what is / are really the issues.

[Guardian412]

It depends. If she starts to call me Daddy, in that case its a deal breaker. However if she has daddy issues by simply missing him, doesn't like him or else, that's not a problem.

[Asker]

Oh okay thank you for the opinion, sir

[Daniel34]

Can you elaborate? when I think daddy issues I think of a woman who is a misandrist, aka who hates men and has issues with them in many ways. Delusional man hating feminists come to mind.

[Asker]

Oh no no, really not that. Some might be, but that's not the main thing... it's just coming for not exactly getting all the attention from your father as a child... it often leads to trust issues too

[Daniel34]

I suppose, but at the same time you shouldn't lose sight of the fact that there are millions and millions of amazing loving, caring fathers out there.

[Asker]

Oh no no of course. Now my father is more "avaliable" and I am aware he loves me and cares for me. It's just things that happened that made me wanting this attention... a father figure more since he wasn't here much...

[Philyouup]

Depends... What issues... Generally though, if she has daddy issues, she hooks up with a guy just like her dad... I'm a great dad, so girls with daddy issues would probably not choose me. :)

[Asker]

Oh no... I don't hookups anyways...
And my father is a great one. I would want a man great like him, all I want is a simple man who could protect me and take care of me... so it's not true to all 😶

[Philyouup]

OK, I have been enlightened in the respect, what are your daddy issues then? I am curious now, as my understanding of daddy issues where much more darker

[Asker]

Well my dad was very far away when I was little, he wasn't home a lot at all. Then when I grew up a little more things got bad with my mother so he wasn't very "available" for me... these days he is more, but it still caused me some part of a need to have more of a father figure... the attention and the warmth of a father... and regardless of that, I have trust and sepration issues which a lot have from daddy issues, but I have these from things that happened with my mother actually... so I just decided to classify if together because usually it is one of these things...

[Philyouup]

ok, I see that. Does this father figure/lover resemble your dad's personality? or that he is warm and protective and treat you well

[Asker]

I don't have one... but if I did I would very want him to resemble my dad (not in a creepy way of course)

[Philyouup]

So currently No boyfriend, or no "daddy" figure as well.. How will find this person? What are your plans?

[Asker]

I don't know... maybe one of the guys I meet or will meet in my work or school...

[Philyouup]

Are looking for an older man to fill the roll of daddy, or just a caring man?

[Asker]

Just a caring man... but I do prefer older, I just don't know any older men

[Philyouup]

Well that can't be too hard.. do you think your attractive? Though it doesn't really matter, Just find an older man, smile and say Hello my name is X and would you like to get a cup of coffee? ... Your youth will greatly enhance your beauty to an older guy..

[Asker]

Well guys have told I'm beautiful but I'm too shy to do anything about it... that's the problem 😶

[Philyouup]

ugh, that is too bad, Older guys , nice ones anyway, won't go up to you and ask you out... particularly if your like 18 or so. You need to be your own advocate. You'll do ok, and you might find your "one"

[Asker]

Yes I know... I never really expected for it to come just like that. Yes I guess... thank you sir...

[Philyouup]

any time... by the way.. your articulate and seem very intelligent, you can figure this out.

[Asker]

Oh wow thank you that's very nice 😶

[Philyouup]

YW reach out anytime

[Synttacks]

Depends how it manifests. I personally think it's hot to be seen as a daddy to my princess (ddlg type of way). So yah...

[Asker]

Oh 😮 well okay then... thanks for the opinion sir

[DaTruth01]

since those are the kind of girls that turn out to be single mothers, cheaters, sleep around, have a high number, super kinky... etc

i say yes it would be an issue

[Asker]

What no... that's not me... ouch...

[DaTruth01]

not saying thats you just telling you what crosses most guys minds when they hear daddy issues

[Asker]

Okay then... thank you for the opinion sir..

[DaTruth01]

cool yw

[Caaarl]

Not a problem enough to be a deal breaker unless she's extremely damaged.

[Asker]

Okay thank you sir

[Ryry97]

Maybe. If she’s a huge slut or hates all men then yah I’m not gonna go near that

[Asker]

No... no that's really not the case. I do love men and I do want a man and need one in my life. And I'm not that, I save for one man only.
But some are these and some aren't I guess...

[RohitLakra]

Yeah! What if she left for some older men or chest on with some old dude

[RohitLakra]

Cheat on*

[Asker]

Are you sure daddy issues are causing that? I would never cheat... that's awful

[RohitLakra]

Are you able to handle your emotions? If yes then they shouldn't be a problem. But personally I won't like to be with some girl who has such issues. I dont trust myself in such cases how can I trust my girl if she has this problem

[Asker]

Yes, just a bit over sensitive...
Okay, I understand. Thank you for the opinion

[RohitLakra]

It's alright! Good luck and do share it with your boyfriend because you wouldn't want to hide it from him, right?

[Asker]

Of course. Thank you, sir

[RohitLakra]

Sir?😨😨😂😂

[Asker]

Oh I'm sorry 😶

[RohitLakra]

You should be😂

[Asker]

😶 how should I say then?

[RohitLakra]

What? You said you are sorry and I replied you should be. There's nothing much to understand in this. Are you sure you dont have over thinking problem as well?😊😄😄

[Asker]

I meant... how should I say instead of sir😶
Anyways sorry again

[RohitLakra]

Just a thank you is enough😅

[Asker]

Okay well thank you again😶

[RohitLakra]

Haha! You have said so many thank yous. You are sweet😊 but I am offended so I guess I will get sorry again😂 I want to follow you on here😊😊

[Asker]

Thank you so much that's very nice of you. Why are you offended?😶 I'm sorry again really

[RohitLakra]

I just wanted you to write that you are sorry😝 you are so funny😊😂

[RohitLakra]

I like your behaviour but if I was your crush or boyfriend I would be little suspicious but in all so far you are very gentle😊

[Asker]

Thank you... but I don't understand why suspicious?

[RohitLakra]

I had a friend who had daddy issues. She already had some boyfriend. One day she might have gone out to a club where she met some guy and she hooked up with him and kept on cheating until his boyfriend found it and dumped him afterwards. She was also saying to me earlier that she won't leave her boyfriend but she did ofc. That's why I would be suspicious or else if the girl comes clean and say that she is having this problem and dont want to continue unless she sorts it out.

[Asker]

Oh that's awful... well I just wanna be with one man. I think it's even gross to be with more than one guy (s*xually I mean)... I understand it has been in your experience, but it's really not my thing.

[RohitLakra]

Cool! The fact that you are censoring the word "sexually" clearly shows you can be trusted and I believe you are a nice woman. After talking to you, I am taking my words back. You can be trusted for sure😊😊 Don't thank me for saying this. I am just getting embarrassed🙈🙈

[Asker]

Oh😶 well I will respect your call... but I really really want to thank you lol

[RohitLakra]

Why are you being so sweet?😭😫

[Asker]

😶😶 can I just give you a last thank you?😶 you're being very kind I have to

[RohitLakra]

I have never met anyone like you on gag so far. Instead of a thank you, you can follow me. I want to get more followers also i will follow you back for sure if you are comfortable😊

[Asker]

Oh okay then

[Asker]

Good luck with gaining more followers 🙃

[RohitLakra]

Thanks! 😭

[SovietBall]

Not at all!

I tend to be a lil' bit fatherly myself when it comes to fantasizing 'bout treating my woman

[Asker]

Great! Thanks for the opinion sir

[byusuri]

I'm at that age where I wouldn't necessarily mind it.

[Asker]

Oh okay well thank you, sir

[byusuri]

Sure thing little lady.

[art84]

Depends on what type of daddy issues like if her father abused her or abandoned her or even abused her mom.

[jimmijo1954]

If you are a licensed psychologist maybe you could ask something like this I’m going to assume that you Are not a licensed anything so that is a silly question

[Asker]

I don't see why it is a silly one... I'm just asking for the opinions if it actually a thing that matters to some people... like asking if it's a deal breaker when your partner has depression, do you really have to be a licensed physcologist to ask that?

[jimmijo1954]

OK well I can understand that but I don’t think that depression and daddy issues would be classified the same

[Asker]

I never said they were the same..

[Asker]

What I meant was... these are two issues that effact the person and most of the time, the people surrending him. All I'm asking is it's the people's opinion, if they are willing to put up with it. But it doesn't seem like a silly question when you refer to despression, so why is it one when refering to daddy issues... and why should only licensed psychologists ask these questions?

[MaskedVigilante]

Nope, actually can be a turn on depending on how she treats it.

[Asker]

Oh okay. Thanks for the opinion sir

[SnapTsch]

Not really, there just more to care for 😊

[SnapTsch]

*there is

[Asker]

Yes... thank you, sir

[JSmuve]

What kind of issues? How would these issues manifest?

[Asker]

Well for me it shows as being a little too emotional and with a bit trust issues... something like that

[JSmuve]

*shrugs* it depends. Could be problematic if it happens too often and is too intense.

[Asker]

Oh okay thank you

[InTimoreDei]

That would be problematic, yes.

[Asker]

Can you please explain why? 😶

[InTimoreDei]

I wouldn't say "no" to them just from that but it is problematic because girls with "daddy issues" are usually hostile and extremely emotional.

[Asker]

Well... the emotional is true about me, yeah... so I get it. Thank you very much for the opinion

[OatsnWhey]

Not at all. We all have our issues.

[Asker]

Yes... thank you sir

[anton_willows]

No. But it certainly is fun.

[Asker]

Fun? How come? 😄

[anton_willows]

If it manifests in a certain way.. Yeah its fun.

[Asker]

Oh okay then... thank you

[kilozeta]

Nope i personally dont see an issue with it

[Asker]

Thank you, sir

[winterfox10]

Shit, I have daddy issues, I can't judge.

[cancan73]

Tbh I'm not really sure what that involves

[Nandor]

Yeah very its disgusting

[Asker]

How... is it disgusting?

[Nandor]

Annoying

[That2kKid21]

nopenope

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[abandonedwolf]

No not really

[Asker]

Okay thanks for the opinion

[HamAndCheese]

Not at all. I like.

[Alpha89s]

Yup. Not interested.

[Asker]

Mind to explain maybe? 😶

[Alpha89s]

She's more likely don't have a clear view on how a relationship will work, the absence of father figure is a big deal for me.

[CT_CD]

Yes...

[Asker]

Can you please say why?

[CT_CD]

It's gross

[Asker]

How come?

[kdhingra307]

means?

[Craigdon]

Yeeeeeeeees
Massive

[Asker]

Can you please maybe explain?

[Craigdon]

All the girls i met with di were mental amd bitches

[Asker]

Oh no... I'm sorry for your experience... but I don't think it's that much of a thing for every girl with it