Guys, are girls with daddy issues crazy territory or can it have its appeal?

[Anonymous]

Let's say she isn't the type to sleep around, but do have some unresolved issues with her father and prefer you take charge and make her feel safe.

[HighValue]

The majority of women in the USA grew up in a single mother household. If she can admit that most things she was likely taught growing up were lies from an uncaring, abusive moron, and wouldn't take any advice from other women, including her mother (if she did grow up in a single mother household) then she can be okay. If she wants to discuss her relationship with her mother or any liberal/feminist women friends, then there is no point in having anything to do with her.

I personally won't tolerate mistreatment in a relationship and would quickly end things, so she would need to be mentally stable, fair, and logical for it to work. I hope that helps give you an idea of what an actual good man would want instead of just what most cowardly people say that are desperate.

[Summeroflove]

Well a woman can’t control how well or bad her dad treated her. She can control her actions as a grown ass adult. It’s just a excuse… and there are women with good upbringings who act shitty and women with bad ones that are not shitty people.

I like what others have said. Taking accountability is biggest thing. If you allow people to say that based off someone’s circumstances they cannot control themselves it does two things… Makes a excuse for people because well obviously they can’t help hir be that way. As well as make accountable respectable adults look bad.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

They’re not “crazy territory.”

They’re people who grew up with emotional gaps they had to fill on their own.

That can show up as insecurity, attachment issues, or a guard that’s hard to break through but none of that makes someone dangerous or unlovable.

The real difference is this,

A woman who’s aware of her wounds and working on herself can be incredibly loyal, intuitive, and emotionally deep.

A woman who isn’t aware of them yet might act out of fear, not intention.

So it’s not about the “daddy issues.”

It’s about the level of self awareness and emotional maturity she has now.

Every person has a story.

What matters is whether they’ve grown from it.

[abc3643]

It's not the worst thing, but it's not good either.
In reality, a man wants to be able to take care of his family. But a smart mature man knows he could die and no longer do that which leaves that up to his widow. If she's a spineless needy jellyfish of a wife, she's not going to do a good job at taking care of herself and the kids.

[Anonymous]

It has its appeal to a lot of men if they’re just looking to get laid. For most men this isn’t a long term relationships. Girl’s w daddy issues are crazy territory that a lot of men will explore, especially if she’s hot. But most men won’t take her serious as far as a relationship. She’s probably crazy in bed, will do whatever you want but also is probably very unstable. That’s why most women like that aren’t good partners.

[snermcger]

Depends on what kind of 'daddy issues'.
As with everything there are gradations.
Big difference between daddy worked too much and wasn't there for soccer games and daddy worked too little, drank too much and was violent... tooo daddy was also a bit too... loving.
All kinda daddy issues out there.

[Anonymous]

Crazy territory. No self respecting guys is serious about a woman with daddy issues. "A woman with daddy issues that doesn't sleep around". That is funny😆 There are 2 types of women with daddy issues. 1. Those that sleep around. And 2. Those that lie about it.😆

[Asker]

I have a high libido for sure, but I do not believe in premarital sex. And besides, I am very introverted and hardly get out of the house. I would imagine it's a little more nuanced than what you describe.

[Staximus]

That depends on the issues. I've met girls who never had a loving father in their life and didn't know how to accept love from any man

[jahaims]

No, heal trauma before you have a relationship or it won't be healthy. You bring masculine energy to cope because you are less vulnerable that way

[BarryLiverstone]

If she is aware of issues then why not try to work on them?

[BarryLiverstone]

And it seems that all girls want a guy to help them feel safe. That’s logical

[Asker]

You can work on it, but I don't know how successful it'll be.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s why you commit to change

[Ariesman81]

That's not Daddy issues. Daddy issues are when a woman refuses to submit.

[Anonymous]

Find out what cologne her dad wears and she will rip her clothes off for you.

[Asker]

That's not daddy issues though? A perfume won't fill the emotional gap