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So I met a guy off tinder yesterday in person. We’ve been speaking about a week through Snapchat and video chat. We met in person and went to a video game bar and then walked around a popular hang out area. He told me prior to meeting up that he had an interest in me and wanted to see where it went. He’s been in two long terms and dated in high school. He’s 28 and I’m 24. He texted me last night after meeting up to tell me that he had a wonderful time. And prior dropping me off at my car, he told me that we should have another date. And asked me again through text last night after the “date” too. He never kissed me but the most he did was hug me last night before and after the meet up. This morning I misread something he said and he clarified what he really meant, but it’s been a few hours and he hasn’t responded. He has a very hectic job and typically responds very quickly. Today he’s off and it’s been hours since we last spoke so I feel like he changed his mind. Do I have a valid reason to be paranoid?

I met this guy on June 2018. I felt in love fast to him and I know we had sex too soon. We had a relationship with this person, however after weeks he comes to confess that he has a girlfriend previously than me. I get mad because I thought I was the only one and we had sex & even gave my virginity to him. I let him choose but he did not choose me first but his girlfriend. He wants to let me wait for a month to break up his girlfriend. But I did not believe him after he told me that he still loves his girlfriend so much. I deleted our mobile contract and even unfriended him on social media but never blocked him.
its been almost 3 months and 1 week since we have not talk with each other.

We happened to met one of his friend and she told me he recently went back together with his ex girlfriend and warned me not to meet or talk to him again ever. He was just using me for sex.
i don’t know why her friend treated me that way , when in fact I also become his girlfriend.

But honest speaking , I miss him and I tried meeting someone new but still I can’t get off him in my mind. I want to communicate but I am afraid he already moved on or might as well her friend is right that he was only using me for sex.

Few months from now , I was given an opportunity to live in another country. And maybe that would be the time that I should forever forget him.

i am so confused if I should talk to him again or not. Or I should wait for him to communicate , since we know at the first place it was his mistake.

whats on my mind right now is to wait for him to communicate first in order to be safe. But if he never communicates again , then maybe I should forget him already