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I believe since time immemorial and across cultures the women tended to the household, cooking, cleaning and watching the children while the husband busted his butt at the office or out hunting mastodons. Fast forward to today and we have a billion different genders no sexual identity and broken divorced families every where you look. Having two parents work leads to both having separate schedules and unique social lives which doesn't bode well for fidelity.

my story in this whole process
im half Indian half Chinese. So that would make me Asian
My mother is of Chinese descent my father of Indian descent. My parents got divorced when I was 4 my father stuck to his Asian Race. He has an Asian daughter.
my mother won custody of me as a child. And mixed with Coloured race. Now my half siblings are Coloured.
my mother decided to Marry a black coloured man.

Misconceptions about the coloured race
a lot of confusion is around this race people assume that they are Mulatto people. But they forgot that many Asians had lived among these folk as well

south African government role in the confusion
Under apartheid South Africa many Asians whi weren't Indian qere classified as coloured and many other people who weren't coloured were classified as such
As there are only four groups in South Africa African, white indian and Coloured.
A lot of people that's not coloured were classified as such.

the apartheid group area act if 1950s role in the confusion

in the 1950s group area act of the apartheid regime. Many Asians were put among the coloured race and the intermixing began with many Asian people intermarrying the coloured race.

racial preservation and further confusion
many Asians at this time had been absorbed into the coloured race. With only a few Asians having racial purity.
These Asians decided to breed only with their own race and restore their community. But doing so was impossible due to the circumstances at the time
My families racial background
my grandmother is Chinese she married a Malaysian man. My mom uncle aunts are Asian Classified as Cape Chinese. My aunt's , uncles got married to Coloured race. And my cousin's cousins are coloured.

So here is the situation. I have a best friend, Against my advice he married one of those feminist types. Anyway, a year into their marriage they choose to try for a baby. She wants a daughter apparently. He does not care as long as its healthy. Later in the pregnancy she finds out that she is having a boy. She goes behind his back and without telling him, she has an abortion. Later she tells him that she miscarried. When the medical bills come in, he discovers the truth, confronts her, and she said that it was her body, her choice, and she didn't want to bring another nasty disgusting boy into existence. He comes to me devastated, I chose to put him in contact with my lawyer, and paid for his retainer. He divorced his wife.. Thankfully they were together just over a year so she is entitled to nothing, The divorce happened, and she is out on the streets. Both he and i have been receiving death threats from her family and friends because of the divorce.

In this situation i personally believe she was the asshole.. She chose to kill his child behind his back, and lie about it.. Yes her body her choice.. But on that same token they're married and she should have at least had the balls to have a conversation with him.

What do you think GAG