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I have met a content creator. she is 24 years old. This is mainly via distance as she lives in another state. She streams on Twitch and she works on other platforms. We met at a party offline.

She has all these guys talking to her and some of them ask to marry her and things like this. One guy has even sent her a large gift of flowers

I asked her about the guy that sent her the flowers and she told me it is all a game and she could block him if I wanted her to and I said no to her blocking him because it’s her life.

I was a little nervous again so I asked her again and she said he’s just a friend and she showed me a text which said that he will support her on the platforms

I told her that I like her because I do and she said she does too and she will always choose me

Anyway - she says other things to him like she loves him and things like this and he’s even said to her mom that he is looking forward to meeting her mom. He is in another country

The guy is old enough to be her father and she has told me and others that she doesn’t want to be someone’s trophy wife and that she could never marry an older man because of this reason. She also said to people that older men usually have an agenda

I told her again for honesty to her the reason why I feel nervous about it is because I do like her and she told me that I must understand that it is just a game and that she needs me in her life. I have sent her some money to help support her here and there

she says I am her best friend

I take her word for it but I still don’t know what to do. I don’t care if he’s nothing to her but I just think like what if she is playing me too?

what do you think?

This discussion started a few days back when I went to meet a few of my friends. One of them commented - "you could be a fuckboy!" (Referring to another guy). The same was said to me once.

😂 This is just for fun, I'll describe the two guys (one of them being me). You decide whom you would consider to be a fuckboy and whom would you be interested in.

Guy1 features:

Is a professional singer and has a mesmerizing voice

Is humble but doesn't have much time for you as he's mostly busy with work

Is somewhat rich. Owns a car. Runs a business.

Has a lot of contacts with famous people (because of his job).

Is vegetarian. But doesn't mind if you are non vegetarian, as long as you don't force him to try non veg.

5'6" height. Healthy physique. Curly noodle-like hair.

Has a lot of friends but most of them are friends only for his fame. Very few genuine friends.

Likes to keep up with trends and fashion.

Does not drink/smoke for his voice, but enjoys parties and dancing and will sing for you.

You might get a free meals at top 5 star hotels as he has a lot of connections there.

Guy2 features:

5'8" height. Lean stature. Defined jawline.

Looks nerdy and is somewhat nerdy. Wears glasses.

Is humble and polite and very patient.

Sweet talker and will take out time for you if he's interested.

Has a mediocre job. No assets.

Very popular among his peers for his nature and behaviour. Had a lot of friends male/female.

Not a vegetarian.

Has a bland fashion sense. Wears overfit clothes and doesn't keep up with trends.

People tend to trust him very easily. Has the "innocent trustworthy guy" face

Does not drink or smoke or enjoy dance parties.

Which one seems interesting to you? Whom would you be interested to date? One of them is me (and I think it's obvious which one)