Why does she still want to be friends?

[Justanotherthrowaway]

About a month ago I got rejected by a friend she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship and we’re just friends. It got into a one sided argument on her end that I was never truly her friend, my side was that it was but us hanging out wouldn’t be a true friendship as I had feelings for her.

Despite what happened last month and me telling her that I didn’t think it was not a great idea, she’s been reaching out a lot to hangout with me, I don’t reach out to her at all. I even discover that she had a tinder account setup in our area. I told her that we already discussed this issue and she said “it’s insane that we can’t be friends because I won’t date you are so immature and disgusting.” She blocked me on everything.

My friends agree with her that I was in the wrong

I don’t get it, every girl that has at some point rejected me never tried to make a friendship and just left me alone. This girl rejected me, I don’t contact her I don’t go out of my way to make plans, but she wants to see me constantly and make plans to hangout.

I’m starting to fell like maybe I’m the asshole/Badguy and that I should continue the friendship but I don’t know. I’m ok with a low commitment friendship where we keep it cordial, but not one where I’m spending nights, texting each other 50 times a day, and constantly seeing each other.

Am I in the wrong?

[i_am_tbjxii]

Honestly I understand your pain I did have a friend I like but she saw me more as a friend I mean that was fine cause I been on both sides of the spectrum. If you want to continue being friends with her that’s fine but just let it go if you decide to. Secondly, don’t worry about rejection just take it in stride she wasn’t for you but there is one amazing lady out there looking for you just give it time. Don’t change who you are or be afraid to approach anyone just like you did with her cause one day it may work and you’ll be with a woman who appreciates that. All the best bro.

[worldscolide]

For one, she's in the wrong for wanting friendship if you want more, all it causes is heart ache if the feelings are not returned. Your friends are wrong for not taking your side, they aren't really your friends if they did that. She likely incorrectly believes that she can string you along, use you as a shoulder to cry on, while she rides the cock carousel.. Women like that are best cut off.