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This may be a more a personality and disposition question than "Men/Women", but educational for some I suspect. I know my wife, so all good there!

Is this what many men do? Give up authentic parts of who you are and your personality just so you have a real chance with the women to end up in a relationship or marriage? Altering yourself like that by destroying who you really are to not being truly yourself just so you have a relationship, marriage and or kids? Is not getting a relationship or marriage or the end of your bloodline thanks to you being your true self really so much worse than being with a woman loving you being your fake self and risk getting divorced and becoming a pay slave for when either she finds out you're not who she thought you are or you fall apart from imitating like that?

And before you say "What is this Nonsense? Men don't do that" what if i told you there are men, that don't show you that they've sacrificed parts of who they are as much as they don't show feelings? Point being you are probably unaware, that some men gave up parts of their personality and who they are and are actively putting up an impressive facade version of "manly man" of themselves for you girls. Anything just to be in a relationship or marriage or not risking the end of their bloodline.

For me it’s obvious; I’ve got one life. I would never settle. It really is both components. I know if I’m physically attracted to a girl at first glance, no personality overcomes a lack of physical attraction at all. Just as no amount of beauty overcomes crappy personality. Both are just as necessary. (Mind you everyone finds different types attractive so I don’t believe in leagues).

With a significant other there’s no in between for me, it’s enthusiastic yes or no thank you. I’m polite with giving and receiving rejection but I am resolute here. I just don’t understand people who don’t soneone because they don’t want to be alone. I’m scared of being alone sure-but settling scares me much more and I’m sure most healthy people would feel similar. Otherwise you’re dating just to have someone rather actually having a desire for a person.

"Both trolls and sadists feel sadistic glee at the distress of others. Sadists just want to have fun... and the Internet is their playground!"

"... cyber-trolling appears to be an Internet manifestation of everyday sadism"

"The noxious personality variables known as the Dark Tetrad of personality – narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadistic personality... research [links] these traits to bullying in both adolescents and adults..."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-online-secrets/201409/internet-trolls-are-narcissists-psychopaths-and-sadists

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914000324

"High scores in these traits have been found to statistically increase a person's likelihood to commit crimes, cause social distress, and create severe problems for organizations, especially if they are in leadership positions. They also tend to be less compassionate, agreeable, empathetic, and satisfied with their lives, and less likely to believe they and others are good."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad

No wonder they fantasize that they're having a terrible effect on people who stand up to their lies. Frankly, they're mostly boring.