How can you showcase your personality if you're not physically attractive?

[Anonymous]

[Purpleronnie]

Personality , character , attitude , sense of humor , confidence … maturity these ALL play a role just as important in my mind as whatever is deemed to be attractive physically or facialy


Mentally if you don’t “feel” attractive you’re less likely to “peacock” and show yourself in a light that in any way helps you.


My advice to any person that feels this way would be firstly … “acceptance “ that you don’t look like Chris Hemsworth or Scarlett Johansson , followed up with working on yourself to present those qualities , and personality traits that you DO have.


Beauty is only skin deep and there are billions of people who are generally regarded as plain or average looking. It looks fade and change as we age and NOBODY should ever get hung up on what is attractive and comparing themselves. That is just emotional sabotage !

[catiecatie]

If you are talking about dating apps, well there are many different people that are on there. Let’s say one lady likes her guys with very large muscles, but this other lady likes her guys that like to stay in and play games. Each woman is different. Take one of my old friends. He was really nice but very nerdy. I told him to go onto Bumble, as that’s where the girls answer first. He downloaded it and then told me he can’t make the calls as he doesn’t know how they are in real life and myself telling him to look at their bios and base it off that and he still couldn’t do it. I told him just to “suicide swipe” but according to him he still couldn’t do that either. I mean I’d say take photos with your male friends that it looks like you are having fun, but also add a photo of things you like to do, like video games or have a picture with a favorite sport teams jersey on. Be yourself and have fun while doing it!

[ihateTaylorSwift]

being fat, I just roll with it being this round

same with to embrace ur own face

don't show them you're insecure
be chill about it
instead of dwelling obsessively
to the point it so noticable it bothers you
and others can tell

[NicholasRedone]

I've often found being myself is the key 🗝️🔐

And it really works. Because ultimately, some people, myself included, are happier without romantic relationship pressures. Its one thing to have demanding friends or demanding other relationships in life ; a demanding girlfriend or wife, let alone throwing in her friends, her inlaws and herself and her brain or offspring even - I could think of no worse hell.

So man, im happier as a single person. 👍🏻😋😈 Think about that won't you - no advice

[hahahmm]

Women care way less about looks than dudes do. I have known guys who you would think could never get girls based on looks but they had no problems cause they knew how to talk to women. On the flip side of that, you could be the hottest looking man on earth and if you have zero charm you're not getting a woman.

[northerngal]

Confidence. I have seen plenty of so called regular people just own a room with their self confidence. Note: confidence is not the same thing as cockiness.

[Asker]

Anecdotes are just personal experiences

[NicholasRedone]

Or - biceps 💪🏻 or - the allusion of biceps wearing jacket or tight tshirt - mmm hmm 🧐🤔

[dustybiker2]

By learning to be happy and confident. People can be attractive... but if they're miserable or flaky they lose about 90 points.

[Asker]

Is this absolute?

[dustybiker2]

Just think about what turns you off.

[adventurous-1]

by your answers to questions posted and your opinions given on subjects presented. That's how people get to know you without out every seeing or meeting you. Just be honest and yourself.

[Ms_Facesitter]

By getting out there with your heart on your sleeve.

[Asker]

What does that even mean

[Ms_Facesitter]

People who are themselves, not afraid to show it, confident, friendly decent human beings

[Ms_Facesitter]

people who don't let their looks hold them back from being themselves

[DaBiggestBird]

Your personality is kinda supposed to mask it or rather, make your appearance slightly less relevant

[princeofromance]

You can be charming. Being charming and kind do not require good looks. If they do not like you for who you are, then they are not worth your time anyway.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You don't have to be attractive to have a nice personality.

[Asker]

But what good is it if you can't show it

[NicholasRedone]

"what good is a Honda if you can't show it off" - Superintendent Chalmers, speaking to Principal Skinner, - The Simpsons

[Tomisworthless]

You dont, trash looks and character are one

[Anonymous]

Make yourself more attractive. You can fix a lot of the things you're insecure about.

[JSmith925]

Become involved in group activities and clubs.

[strateguy632]

No chance to.

[LiamJHayden]

In group activities.

[Crazzyyworld]

B urself

[Anonymous]

I wonder the same :(