Is there something important you want to tell people?

[msc545]

I want to tell men that:

Initial inappropriate friendliness or affection is often pathognomonic for Borderline Personality Disorder, which has elements of Narcissism, but is actually far worse and more dangerous. It differentially affects women and cannot be treated effectively. Get involved with a person who has it and it will ruin your life.

[purplepoppy]

The art of communication isn't so much to be understood as it is to not be misunderstood. We all have slips of memory and of the tongue but when you've had ample to phrase your thoughts or actions there is little excuse. Arguing your words were misconstrued is no excuse, it's your responsibility to speak with clarity, not ours to decipher.

[Caroline91]

Except language itself is a lot more nuanced. We all have different emotional connections to certain words, based on our real life experiences, so defining terms can be laborious. It is really very easy to misconstrue words and communication is a two way street that includes both parties taking responsible to clarify what is the true meaning…and intent…behind someone’s words.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Caroline91
Amen to that. Subjectivity of language and hidden semantics 🙏

[Anonymous]

I have serious jealousy problem regarding my husband when other women talk to him. A few weeks back he had to meet a potential customer who is a woman, I looked her up and she is like a model. Anyway I had sex with him the evening b4, in the middle of the night and I gave him a blowjob in case he felt tempted.

[JSmith925]

I'm impressed. I had to look up pathognomonic. Moreover, your observations are astute and spot on. I have had a relationship with such a woman. . . but not for long.

[msc545]

Thanks - glad you are free of her.

[exitseven]

Yes, @msc545 knows a lot of big words.😊😊😊

[msc545]

@exitseven None of the words I used seem overly large to me... so uh?

[exitseven]

to me three syllables is a lot.

[msc545]

oh. ok. This better?

[exitseven]

yes, thsnk you

[msc545]

my pleasure.

[lightbulb27]

Been there done f st one that.


I want to inform that snow makes good snow cones! Enjoy life!

[MemeSupreme]

bpd is a weird one but yeah might wanna stay away lol it's not for everyone

depends if they're getting treatment too and what kind of mindset you got for it

[msc545]

there is no effective treatment for BPD, although very frequent DBT psychotherapy may help control it.

[Caroline91]

Not really anymore. Up to this point in my life, I’ve pretty much said it all. Have to wait and see what unfolds in this next chapter.

[goaded]

I think I speak for us all when I say... Huh?

[KrakenAttackin]

You mean, "bitches be crazy".

[msc545]

Yeah, that.

[KrakenAttackin]

It seems this pathology is spreading like wildfire amongst women.

[msc545]

indeed it seems to be.

[Sevenpointfive]

but the ladies love it!

[Miah06]

Yes...

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