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Ever since I was little I always liked boys, I've had roughly 4 crushes in my life time. When I was 16 I started checking out males and females from top to bottom, I started questioning myself, I started feeling I wanted to kiss girls and try it out, I have moments where I want to kiss them and other times I don't even want to kiss them. I tried to picture myself dating them but I don't really think I do. Then when I start to like someone and they want something serious I tend to pull away. Some guys have told me I am a tease. I would play guys but not really realizing it. I've "Pleasured myself" ever since I was 12\13 years old. I enjoy it. Sometimes I would fantasising being the guy wishing I was the girl if that makes sense. Other times I would want nothing to do with anyone and not even be in a relationship and just focus on myself. (I still think this and I am 20) I go back and forth. Then I was recently talking to a guy and we were talking about stuff like this and he's like "I think your bi sexual when it comes to sex but straight when dating" I kind of got offended and he kept bringing it up and I told him to stop bringing it up and he eventually stopped. He said "I am just helping out a friend realizing who she truly is" keep in mind I've only known this guy for a month. He made me realise some things about myself (not just my sexuality) but other things. What do you think?

I'm a Belgian girl currently studying in the States. Before I left for my summer break, I met a guy and we kinda fell "in love." It was a short thing, only some nights, we had no sex, but there was a lot of kissing and talking.
We were clearly crazy about each other and there were feelings involved. Somehow we lost contact over summer, but I couldn't forget him. He's not a person who likes texting and he doesn't have any social media accounts. Everyone I know would describe him as a bit strange (but still "cool") and different. Anyways, when I came back to the US I sent him two messages that I'd like to meet up and recieved no answer ( I know from mutual friends that he may have problems cause he quit his studies.) Three days ago I bumped into him. I tried to hide my nervousness while we were with a few mutual friends. I also ignored him because there were so many people around us that know about us so it was a pretty awkward situation.
But when I wanted to leave he said he wanted to talk to me...
The first thing he said was that he received my messages. Then he said that he was really busy over the past few weeks but that he'd love to meet up with me again. I tried to show no emotions as I was simply shocked and tried to hide my feelings... He said again that he'd want to see me again but that he might be busy the next couple of weeks, but he said he would text me. It was maybe a 30-60sec talk and we were walking so he didn't really look me in the eyes or anything, but as I mentioned above, he's def not like most guys I know.

I don't think that he's an asshole but well, who knows. I think he's having a lot of difficulties with his life right now (don't think he's really busy.) I also really appreciate that he came to talk to me. I'm pretty sure something will happen sooner or later because what we experienced before I left was unique.
by the way, he's 22, I'm 25.

I just hope to hear from him soon as I'm getting crazy & need some support / want to hear your opinion!!

So let's say you met someone several months ago, became friends, and after a couple months started "talking" as more than friends. So spending a lot of time together, acting like a couple, talking about making it official, etc. you're basically together, but no ones made it official yet.

But after a few weeks of that you do make it official. However you find out after a month of being official that about a week before you made it official this girl/guy had sex with someone else, and that person was their ex that they were dating when you first met but had broken up with before you guys started "talking"

I'm a freshman at college and I met this guy at a party the second night that after I moved into my dorm. I spent the night at his dorm and we didn't have sex and didn't even kiss. We just cuddled and... scratch that... we did eskimo kisses and cuddled/spooned. Mostly we just asked each other questions about one another and talked for most of the night (and morning). He was really sweet. We decided to label us as just friends, but is was evident that we liked each other a lot.

Then, the next day I see him with a group of our mutual friends and we talk, but things aren't really the same... like I felt like he was a little distant from me. I then talked to a friend of ours (not telling her my thoughts on how he acted towards me) and she told me that they were all teasing him earlier about liking me and that he was "having none of it".

We have talked and "hung out" (if you can even call it that) once after that night and I know he still likes me as a friend, but it's like he's gotten distant. Could the teasing have something to do with him backing off?