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now see I signed up to a few online dating sites, not gonna lie, it's cuz I'm kind of shy but I also really wanted to see what their all about. I've found that you have to stand out big time in order to get a girl to give you her number and/or meet up with you. I know the statistics as a guy, so that means every line you've said they've probably already herd like 40 times that same day. (That also makes it harder for women to choose the right dudes.) I also believe a lot of the women are very dismissive and too quick to pass judgment. A lot of the ladies say hi back when I initiate a conversation but as soon as I began asking about their personal life such as hobbies and things they like doing for fun or places they work, they go silent and stop talking lol!.😅 It's almost to the point where you have to be sexy like a model or your wasting your time (not all women are like that on dating sites but honestly the majority of them are.) it makes me assume every dating site is more or less promoting the idea of a ((quick hookup)), not really
((find my partner)) type thing. I've looked at the success stories on some of the sites and most of the couples are older mature people who aren't very good looking. They all seem very happy and their love seems legitimate. No one my age, (30 or younger) has any success stories... lol. I'm not sure how it is for the ladies but this was the affect I experienced as a guy and I'm sure many other guys can relate. I don't know how it is for the girls though so I ask you again,

guys/girls, do you feel some of the women & men are too quick to pass judgment on dating sites? Feels like walking on a car lot or somthin trying to find the coolest car to buy lol!

I ask this because when on dating sites I noticed any woman that I actually find attractive and would be interested in meeting when you get to the part of the profile or it states what they're looking for they always seem to pick "casual dating nothing serious" but when I blocked out all the people that do that response and search only for "looking for long-term" or "seeking marriage" it's profile after profile of overweight women or women who have multiple small children. but let a woman be child-free in at least semi attractive hell from what I've seen they all want to just cereal date. both women who are young and haven't had kids yet or attractive older women whose kids are leaving the house. and I'd like to know from you ladies is there something similar going on on your end of it? do you find the men that you actually want to be in a relationship with don't want relationships? and the men who do want relationships are they what you view as Undateable?