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The 20/80 rule applies in a lot of things. For men, there's a belief that 20% of them get 80% of all the sex. Basically most women only go for the top 20% of men based on physiques, social status and wealth.

However it puzzles me about what makes some of these women think that they will get men of that calibre when they are probably not in the top 20% material in the dating pool.

A lot of women want men to earn more, be taller, be more successful, be more funny who can make them laugh, more intelligent, more social than they are. In some cases, more physically beautiful than the woman. Guys get rejected for having flaws in any of the above area. To be the top 20%, it almost means he has to be flawless.

If we can quantify physiques, intelligence, social status and wealth into stat points, a lot of these women don't even measure up to the type of guys they are after.

If a guy exhibits a lot if not all the above traits in your eyes ladies, then he probably is better than you and you don't measure up. Why would someone like him find you intriguing and want to be with you for long? He would be after the top 20% of the women pool.

It just confuses me why some women would bother freezing their eggs, I mean why is it so hard for some of you to find the right guy when there are plenty of good guys around. They may have not have strengths in all the points mentioned that are relevant to you, but surely most would have other qualities. So why be so picky, especially when you are not flawless yourself?

Being able to pay the ridiculous fees for egg freezing implies these women have reached a certain level of financial success on their own. They are probably highly educated.

If the believe is that the top 20% men don't like top 20% women because they are too dominant, then this implies that these same women could have found a guy more established then they were before they got to the top too. Please educate me what the excuse is?